Author	Thread: Proper to be here if you have a bf/gf?
rbj66 View Profile History	Proper to be here if you have a bf/gf? Posted : 8 Jul, 2024 06:53 AM A woman asked me to video chat and i responded i am supposed to sort of host someone coming here soon and i would rather wait until after this event out of respect for both ladies. She replied its okay because her boyfriend is coming to see her next month. Wait, what? 🤔😳😐. I could see this on a secular site, but i certainly wouldn't expect it here yet i guess i need to realize not everyone follows the Bible here either. I have jumped off here a couple of times out of respect for monogamy towards a woman when i briefly "gave it a go" but this surprised me. Thoughts on it? Post Reply
Jayzeee View Profile History	Proper to be here if you have a bf/gf? Posted : 8 Jul, 2024 07:19 AM I think it’s fine to still be here if you have a bf/gf as long as you let it be known. There has on a few occasions been those who remained on the forum after meeting & marrying through the site they’ve now left to get on with married life I guess…:-) Post Reply
WalkNTalk View Profile History	Proper to be here if you have a bf/gf? Posted : 8 Jul, 2024 08:04 AM All are words. People not even meet then become devoted. You have an online girlfriend. She has an online boyfriend. You have girlfriends and she has boyfriends. Dating is dating. Unless it is exclusive, it is not exclusive. It is not the same as being husband and wife or lovers. It is a learning time. A get to know one another better time. You do that. She does it too. Many on here would hope for a video chat or meet. So, I think you are doing pretty good! Enjoy your virtual date! Post Reply
Moonlight7 View Profile History	Proper to be here if you have a bf/gf? Posted : 8 Jul, 2024 10:58 AM @OP This is an international dating site. No personal backups are made on members on here . Private dating sites to have that . Post Reply
HazelEyesSparkle View Profile History	Proper to be here if you have a bf/gf? Posted : 12 Jul, 2024 10:00 PM What do you mean "out of respect for both ladies?" So you're talking to multiple women.. and she can talk to multiple men.. which is fine But having a boyfriend prior to getting online is odd? Why even be on a date site then? Post Reply
Ontnet View Profile History	Proper to be here if you have a bf/gf? Posted : 15 Oct, 2024 03:12 PM No, it is not proper to be here if you have a boyfriend or girlfriend! Is it proper to be on this site if you are separated? No! I've been approached by men, on this site as well as another, who listed themselves as separated. A separated man is still a married man! Why get entangled with someone who has established an exclusive relationship with another? I bless, block and keep it moving! Post Reply
Handyman62 View Profile History	Proper to be here if you have a bf/gf? Posted : 18 Oct, 2024 09:49 AM Modern women many times have multiple men they put in the friend zone. And some of these men think they are the boyfriend, and others are but aren't treated as such. But the reverse is not as common. It's very difficult at times to even know if you're a couple when when so many women put their men on the back burner while they go out and have fun with their "male" and female friends. We are so deep in the women come first in everything movement that the lines have been severely blurred. It's appears to be very common that while dating a particular guy, women will be on every dating app out there and their phones will be full of messages from men they are talking to. Women are notorious for always looking for the bigger, better deal and men are looking for someone to settle with who only has to be good enough. So to answer the question: Is it "Proper to be here if you have a bf/gf?" Normally I would say no. But now all bets are off. Post Reply
silver761 View Profile History	Proper to be here if you have a bf/gf? Posted : 28 Oct, 2024 09:06 PM I think, the best advice here is "Don't assume things." When you start talking to someone, he or she may have a boyfriend or girlfriend already. Maybe not. Maybe he or she doesn't even have friends. You'll never know until you ask. So, you got to ask lots of questions. And it's okay to ask. But it's not nice to make all sorts of assumptions about other people. I mean we often assume that others are like us, but we really shouldn't make that mistake. Always come prepared with many questions. Post Reply
Ontnet View Profile History	Proper to be here if you have a bf/gf? Posted : 29 Oct, 2024 02:29 AM @Silver761, I agree with you! All part of the vetting process, right? Asking a lot of questions enables us to obtain information. Some folks can't handle it. Post Reply
Moonlight7 View Profile History	Proper to be here if you have a bf/gf? Posted : 29 Oct, 2024 05:37 AM I'm usually upfront with Men before meet up. I've have met Dates in person from Online, turned out good . I don't date exclusive unless I'm engaged. It's not right to assume a man is dating only you unless he says so and you can Trust the man. Most men I dated don't have a problem getting a date. I'm talking to a Man now . Not on this site . It's too slow here . Hahaha Post Reply