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rbj66

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I i had money (which i do not)
Posted : 28 Mar, 2025 05:38 AM

how would women look at it if i preferred to date and marry a woman with little money? Could it be construed as controlling? I have met many women, a couple of them here and one recently, and it seems there is a bigger attitude with a bigger bank account. Good on you to go and get it, but i see a huge flaw in their logic about love. There are studies that show married couples with less have more, and the biggest cause of divorce is money.

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Moonlight7

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Posted : 28 Mar, 2025 08:01 AM

I would say, marry a woman if you love her whether she has minor not. Many woman have more Many than done men fo for Decades now! You are right divorce rate over finances is higher! I just posted on That in current news yesterday.

I don't want a man who don't know to manager finances when he does have some! Yet I don't want a stingy man either!

My husband and the men I dated in a serious relationship All were generous men spending on a Lady they liked.



I'm not a woman that takes advantage of a man but he has to have had a steady job or retired with a income



I'm Older woman! .. Younger women under 50 msy take on a Man that has no money

But I Worked for years and I was raised you get a job !



I have a lot to say about money! 😀



Even when you have children get a job unless your husband don't want you to work outside the home !!



I do realize some woman won't give a man a second look if her don't want to spend his money !!

Personal Choices!!

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Moonlight7

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Posted : 28 Mar, 2025 08:08 AM

Many Men online internet will never get a serious relationship or even a wife because their Expectations are Unrealistic.

They're looking for something they couldn't get in person anywhere !

Done are Mean and bitter from past relationships with women.



Men have personal choices!! Maybe if they cannot get that they will choose to stay single!!



I don't Date Mean men !!!

Most of my Dates were fun Guys who loved Women.

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Moonlight7

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Posted : 28 Mar, 2025 08:18 AM

Oops edits





"Wether she has Money or not"

Many Women have more Money than some men "

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Posted : 29 Mar, 2025 08:28 AM

You'll never get respect from a woman that has more money than you. Lunarphase has no clue about relationships or is purposely being disingenuous and is trying to make women look better than they really are.

Hypergamy is a real thing and women look for men that are above them financially and can protect them. Women want a man that's going to make their life better than where it's currently at which in their eye's means you must make more then them. You would be better off looking for someone that works at burger king. But even that's no guarantee as social media has filled women's heads with over the top expectations of men.

Nowadays average men stand little chance of finding a down to earth level headed woman.

Below average looking women think they deserve men that are in the top 10% of wage earners. What none of them know is the chances of them getting one is less then a 100th of a percent. And even when informed of that they still feel like they have a really good chance anyway because they have convinced themselves that they are much better then all the other women out there and one of those top tier men will find them.

Modern women live in delusion which comes to them from several areas. The biggest one is from feminism. Feminism has beaten men down and propped women up with a multitude of lies about their capabilities.

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Posted : 29 Mar, 2025 11:56 AM

I guess it depends on why you consider attitude a reflection of their bank account. There are women that would have an attitude regardless. Is it a large enough sample to be sure? Possibly the larger account knows they can support themselves and are expressing things you do not want to hear? Too hard to determine from a forum post. It is not something I have seen in my life, my rich women friends have had difficult men just as much as the poor ones.

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Posted : 29 Mar, 2025 12:00 PM

HM

if you addressing me again it's inappropriate !



You look wherever you can Degrade Me or other Women on here.





Your crossing boundaries as usual!.

You on Ask a girl topic.

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Moonlight7

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Posted : 29 Mar, 2025 12:07 PM

Many Christian Women are doing just fine without a man who they really not attracted too !!

My Older man friend drives a BMW very nice man but he dies not have Money, he has no problem attracting Women with his Personality!!





Bitter Men who constantly insulting Degrading Women shouldn't be Online Dating sites!

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Posted : 31 Mar, 2025 05:35 PM

Lunarshadow since you appear to like to make things up I doubt you know this person with a beamer, but I will address it anyway. There are men out there that have the right amount of looks and personality that don't necessarily have money that give women a tingle in their nether region. These men are known as Chads or Tyrone's. Women will happily jump into bed with men like that, but these men only use them for fun.

rbj66 is not one of those types of men and neither are most Christian men and so as I stated will not garner any real respect from most women.

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Posted : 1 Apr, 2025 08:36 PM

"the biggest cause of divorce is money"

I'd like to comment on this to clarify something. The biggest cause of divorce isn't the abundance of money in marriage but the lack of it.

One of my friends said that he discovered one day that his wife had a spending habit that he was unaware of. She secretly took up huge loans and wasted all their money. Completely ruined them financially. And that's when he got a divorce. Not because everything was looking great and he came home one day to announce that he got promoted and he is going to make twice as much money from now on. I mean that would be a day of celebration, not a cause for divorce. Lol The divorce usually happens after some big financial loss. Yes, the cause is money, the lack of it.

And I would also say that a woman with very little money might be a red flag. Why? Because it could signal an addiction. Most addicted people blow their money on something. Having very little money could be a sign that she has no idea how to manage her finances. Maybe she likes to eat out or use credit cards unwisely. Whatever the problem, it's usually not a good sign. I mean it's almost like the opposite of a Proverbs 31 woman. Are you saying you're looking for someone who is just the opposite of what the Bible calls wise woman? Why??

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Posted : 1 Apr, 2025 08:42 PM

Most people either have money or they have debt. And lots of it. It's really difficult to find someone who has no money. I've talked to some women who were deep in debt up to their eyeballs and had no working plan on how to get out except maybe marry a rich guy? I don't know. This is just pure speculation, but I think, the poorer a woman is, the more debt she has, the more she is looking for a rich guy to marry. Because if you're in a deep-deep hole from which there is no way out ever, then the logical step is to find someone who can help you out. And rich guys can do that.

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