Author	Thread: Is it ok if I "send" a wink or a message to a guy first?
Sugar_and_Spice View Profile History	Is it ok if I "send" a wink or a message to a guy first? Posted : 21 Apr, 2011 02:12 AM Is it ok if I "wink" or send a message to a guy first? or should I wait until someone notice my profile? Post Reply
View Profile History	Is it ok if I "send" a wink or a message to a guy first? Posted : 21 Apr, 2011 05:36 AM Unfortunately it depends on the guy. Some guys prefer to make the first move. But, it seems that most guys here don�t have a problem with the woman winking or messaging them first, so go right ahead. My suggestion, write to them instead of winking at them. Read their profile and ask them a question about something on their profile to get things going. Don�t just send a simple �hello� message, put some effort into the message to show that you have an interest in them. You will get a lot more responses that way. As far as your profile, I would suggest putting some activities that you are interested in. It is important that you love your son and that you enjoy spending time with him, but what sort of activities do YOU like to do? Hope that helps. Post Reply
Gourd00 View Profile History	Is it ok if I "send" a wink or a message to a guy first? Posted : 21 Apr, 2011 12:40 PM I'm fine with girls making the first move. It lets me know that someone values me enough to do that. Post Reply
GodsTruthAlways View Profile History	Is it ok if I "send" a wink or a message to a guy first? Posted : 21 Apr, 2011 01:33 PM I agree. I love :hearts: it when the girl messages me FIRST. Those are the BEST relationships in my opinion!!!!!!!! It odes show that she read and liked my page. Granted one must discern that it is a GOOD realtionship. Yet since I do NOT want children though I know that the right girl/young lady finding and liking my page is a long shoot. BTW I do have a picture for those who are interested in me. :glow: Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	Is it ok if I "send" a wink or a message to a guy first? Posted : 21 Apr, 2011 01:36 PM Of course it's ok. It isn't even really "making the first move." It's just saying hello. Any guy who can't handle a girl sending him a message is way too insecure in his masculinity for you to be interested in him at all. Girls who message guys first the chances of them meeting in person skyrockets when compared to a guy messaging a girl first, even if she does respond. Even if half your messages don't get responded to, you're still doing way better than guys who are lucky to get one in ten first messages replied to. Post Reply
valpo99 View Profile History	Is it ok if I "send" a wink or a message to a guy first? Posted : 22 Apr, 2011 09:10 PM Yes it is. I usually ignore winks but respond to messages. The only time you won't get a response to a message is that particular guy wants to make the first move. Post Reply