Author	Thread: UH-OH, THE OL' RACE CARD
HolyGhostGirl View Profile History	UH-OH, THE OL' RACE CARD Posted : 14 Apr, 2011 08:51 PM Okay, so I'm going to talk about the virtual pink elephant in the middle of the room...RACE RELATIONS....sort of. Would you marry someone out of your race? Why or why not? To spice it up a bit, would you marry someone from any race? ie...A white man might marry an asian woman or a hispanic female, but not be opened to a black woman or a native american woman. I mean, we are all Christians, we should love all people and be able to get along with everyone. But, we do have personal preferences as well. Be honest! Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	UH-OH, THE OL' RACE CARD Posted : 14 Apr, 2011 09:08 PM I'd absolutely date a woman outside of my race. I went to a formal last Friday with a Caribbean girl. The most physically attractive woman I've ever seen was half white, a quarter black, and a quarter Thai though. Actually, come to think of it, a lot of very attractive people are mixed race. Post Reply
View Profile History	UH-OH, THE OL' RACE CARD Posted : 14 Apr, 2011 09:24 PM "To spice it up a bit, would you marry someone from any race?" ------------------ To spice it up a bit I would marry a woman from every race! Though kinda a mute point since I can't seem to find one from any race. I'm hoping we find life on other planets soon, perhaps a planet of women without 'must have lists' searching the galaxy for men. *sigh* Post Reply
HolyGhostGirl View Profile History	UH-OH, THE OL' RACE CARD Posted : 14 Apr, 2011 09:38 PM It's my buddy...Tulip89..lol Yes, okay, that's good that you're open to other races. But did you notice you only really mentioned mixed races. I was kinda talking about races who were not mixed. I'll just come right out with it. Would you date a black woman? A korean woman? Post Reply
HolyGhostGirl View Profile History	UH-OH, THE OL' RACE CARD Posted : 14 Apr, 2011 09:40 PM Twosparrows, I thought you liked that lady on here that you said was sexy in one of my forum chats. I think she was your race though. Nevermind. Hang in there, it's someone out there for you. Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	UH-OH, THE OL' RACE CARD Posted : 14 Apr, 2011 09:50 PM Does Caribbean not count as a real race? Anyways, my first kiss was actually with a black girl. I've never had any experience dating Asians, but I'm not against it. Really, I'd be interested in any girl I found attractive, and I find women attractive from all different races. Post Reply
View Profile History	UH-OH, THE OL' RACE CARD Posted : 15 Apr, 2011 05:06 AM wow I am so glad you wrote this thread. I am finding that only black guys are interested in men. I have dated a couple of black guys before, they were very nice, but I cannot seem to look past it. Let me explain. I have a huge family, most of them are racist. They would flip out if I was dating a black guy. I went through middleschool interested in black guys, only to be scared into not being able to date a black guy. Now because I have this fear in the back of my head about my family and everything, I just can't do it. And I feel bad to eliminate some awesome guys. The other thing is I have a daughter, blonde hair blue eyes. I had a friend for a while we tried dating. He was very handsome, very dark black man. Well when I would see us all together, he would stick out. And alot of people would look at us wierd. I know alot of its ignorance on my family and my part. But I don't think it would be fair to put myself, my man, and my daughter through the fire of racism in my family. It's kind of amusing though, because God has put on my heart so many times to do fostercare and/or adopt. And when I was married we almost adopted a mixed little girl. She was so beautiful. Luckily the adoption didn't work out, and after that my marriage fell apart. My marriage was doomed in the beginning anyways. I guess my point is... if there wasn't so many racists people in my family, and where I live, I probably would be interested in a black guy. But I don't want to put anyone through the pain of my ignorant family. lol Does that make sense? Post Reply
HolyGhostGirl View Profile History	UH-OH, THE OL' RACE CARD Posted : 15 Apr, 2011 05:42 AM soluvable, I totally understand, girl. I get a mixture, but it's been a lot of white men lately. I'm not racist, but I just can't see myself with a white man...married. However, you know the Lord has a sense of humor, so my husband may very well be white. I wish society didn't make it this way, like with the dirty looks and all. I was out with one of my white male friends years ago. He was 6'4, which didn't help, and we got strange looks. I remember this one girl, she was white I believe, and she looked at me like she wanted to fight...hahaha I wasn't as close to God then, so I said something to her and what not.lol :angel: This race thing is so tricky. People don't really want to deal with it. That's why this thread will probably get a decent amount of views, not very man replies. We, as people, as Christians, need to discuss this type of stuff. Post Reply
View Profile History	UH-OH, THE OL' RACE CARD Posted : 15 Apr, 2011 05:47 AM Yes, lol. I wouldn't be surprised if God sends me my husband and he is a black man. lol. My mom got to the point where she told me, Tiffany I would rather you be with a nice black man, then a white guy who abuses you. Which at that time, I was with one white guy after another, they all were abusive jerks. I've went on two dates with two black guys. They were the nicest, sweetest, men. One of them was kind of dorky looking. But he treated me like a princess. I felt so bad, because I wasn't interested in him. But you could tell he really liked me. Post Reply
HolyGhostGirl View Profile History	UH-OH, THE OL' RACE CARD Posted : 15 Apr, 2011 06:07 AM "One of them was kind of dorky looking. But he treated me like a princess. I felt so bad, because I wasn't interested in him. But you could tell he really liked me." soluvable, that goes back to what I said on another forum topic of mine. It seems lik when I do meet a nice dude he's not so attractive. When I meet an attractive one he's not so sweet. If I could find both, I'd be married right now...lol:yay: I understand everything you're saying though. Post Reply
rainbowian View Profile History	UH-OH, THE OL' RACE CARD Posted : 15 Apr, 2011 08:22 AM I probably wouldn't have a problem with it but it's hard to say for sure unless I was in that situation. Post Reply

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