Author	Thread: Ok, be honest please.
ProudMom79 View Profile History	Ok, be honest please. Posted : 7 Apr, 2011 12:35 AM I am just wondering what is wrong with my profile that I am not getting any conversations. Is it because I am clear that I only want friendship right now??? Or is it because my info is turning guys off? Please let me know.. I don't want to waste my time on here if the real me turns the decent guys away. Thanks! Many Blessings Me :rocknroll: Post Reply
Gourd00 View Profile History	Ok, be honest please. Posted : 7 Apr, 2011 02:16 PM Well, this is a dating site, so your chances of making a lot of male friends here is already significantly lower because of that. Two- you mention you don't want to be friends with mediocre Christians, and there might be a lot of people who might make good friends but perhaps feel inadequate in their own walks, so you lose possible friends there. Three- you mention you speak your mind and are honest to a fault, and often that is interpreted as "She openly admits to being insensitive," which isn't a good quality. If you want more friends, staying active in the forum could help, because people who regularly post in the forum are more open to friendships than people who aren't active in the forum section of the website. Also, make sure to message guys you might want to start convos up with. If you were waiting for the guys to do the initial work, you're wasting your time- you're looking for friendship, not dating (not that I believe dating should be that way anyway). Post Reply
ProudMom79 View Profile History	Ok, be honest please. Posted : 8 Apr, 2011 10:57 PM Awesome thanks. I guess I add that I AK honest because I have come across so many guys that say what they think you want to hear and not the truth. My soon to he ex is exactly that way ... thank you for the reply. Post Reply