Author	Thread: Taken in hand
bettygirly View Profile History	Taken in hand Posted : 10 Mar, 2011 06:32 AM Does anyone know what a taken in hand Cdd relationship is and if so what is your opinion? Post Reply
View Profile History	Taken in hand Posted : 10 Mar, 2011 07:31 AM Where I allow my husband to whoop my behind if thinks I've gotten outta hand? :ROFL::ROFL::ROFL::ROFL::ROFL: I wish a niqqa would!:boxing: If a woman likes S & M, then she needs to just say that. SMH Post Reply
View Profile History	Taken in hand Posted : 10 Mar, 2011 01:08 PM You can google it. It basically means the woman is in full submission to her husband. About every single aspect of herself and her life. Details can be worked out between couples. Post Reply
View Profile History	Taken in hand Posted : 10 Mar, 2011 05:23 PM No time to google it, so I'll just have to take godslamb and babygirl's definition. Until now, I never heard of it! Guess it's true ya learn something new every day! Lol Post Reply
View Profile History	Taken in hand Posted : 10 Mar, 2011 08:04 PM Yeah, Chevy it's some craziness. I used to read Johanna Lindsey romance novels and so I had read about men spanking their women, but I thought that was some jazz somebody made up. But it has gone on in history and is finding new life in conservative Christian homes. What??? It completely downgrades a grown donkey woman to the role of a child. If I want to stay in that position, why do I need to leave and cleave? I can just stay with my mama and daddy and let them continue to beat my behind!:dunce: The Word says that a man is to dwell with his wife according to knowledge, giving honour to her as the weaker vessel and as BEING HEIRS TOGETHER of the grace life that their prayers not be hindered. 1 Peter 3:7. Spouses are partners and should be showing each other mutual respect, not one dominating another with some thinly veiled, controlling, manipulative, no self esteem having, S & M loving/but in denial, slave/master craziness that causes the Christian community to once again, lose credibility because of a few demon oppressed extremists. Yeah, I said it. Post Reply
View Profile History	Taken in hand Posted : 10 Mar, 2011 09:16 PM I've heard of it before, and what little I've found of it, not something I would want to be part of. It seems that women are treated little more than children at worst, at best, maybe they are given some freedom. The women are held accountable to the husbands in that the husbands punish the women for disobeying them. However, there seems to be no accountability of men, when they are disobeying God. Post Reply
View Profile History	Taken in hand Posted : 11 Mar, 2011 06:13 AM As I have always said, the Bible certainly commands the wife to submit to her husband, but nowhere does the Bible command the husband to make his wife submit to him. If she will not submit, that is between her and God. I have only heard vague stories about this movement, but to me it seems to ignore the other command that always goes along with wives submitting to their husbands, that is that husbands are to love their wives, just as Christ loved the church. There is a funny skit by �The Skit Guys� called Romantically Challenged (it�s on youtube) where one of the guys takes the �love the church� out of context. His wife overdrew the checking account, so acting as Christ, he overturned her lamp and nightstand, just like Christ overturned that tables of the money changers in the temple. That was too funny. Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	Taken in hand Posted : 11 Mar, 2011 07:46 AM I've not heard of this particular movement, and I haven't googled it...but from what y'all are saying, I think I'll go with the majority on this one: it's not for me. Post Reply
View Profile History	Taken in hand Posted : 11 Mar, 2011 09:31 AM When I say accountability, what I mean is that the woman has not right to even question why her husband is doing certain things. They are also not being held accountable for their actions by other men. Post Reply
View Profile History	Taken in hand Posted : 11 Mar, 2011 10:20 AM Kat, you are right. Men are accountable to their pastors and deacons. The big question is, does the church practice church discipline, or do they just ignore what men do. Our church has removed several men last year for abandoning their wives and kids. Post Reply
View Profile History	Taken in hand Posted : 12 Mar, 2011 08:45 PM What? I've never heard of this? Lost...must be riding in the same boat Chevy is in..haven't heard of it..sounds strange though Post Reply