Author	Thread: Signs to look out for?
SHEISME View Profile History	Signs to look out for? Posted : 2 Mar, 2011 11:31 PM Ok,I've associated myself with street men and dated a few also. But never had any experience with an actual Christian man. So my question is how would you truly know if a CHRISTIAN guy is into you? Getting back into church,and learning to live an entire new lifestyle for myself, in itself,has been a process. So I can't even begin ti place my thoughts around how the opposite sex is supposed to carry themselves. I honestly admit that I only know what I have known for years and from past experience. Which is guys being vulgar,very colorful with showing that thoughts and there interest in me,and just somewhat disrespectful. I'm sure you know what I'm talking about. So,because a good mans characteristis isn't quite like what I'm use to,it's hard for me to know when they are interested. Hmmmmmm,enlighten me please..... Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	Signs to look out for? Posted : 3 Mar, 2011 08:01 AM Probably the easiest thing to look out for is if he asks you on a date. Post Reply
View Profile History	Signs to look out for? Posted : 3 Mar, 2011 12:18 PM A true Christian man will treat you like a lady. He will not make you feel uncomfortable. You should feel safe with him. Every conversation should have talk of God and your Christian walk and growth in it. Not that you will only talk about that --- but it should be one of the topics, if not the main topic, whenever you are talking together. If there is pressure for sex or too much physical contact and/or vulgar talk then he is not the kind of true Christian man you want to be around. If you have someone in your church (an older lady? the pastor's wife?) you trust that you can introduce men to, then can give you some good insight and feedback. Hope that helps. Post Reply
View Profile History	Signs to look out for? Posted : 3 Mar, 2011 01:35 PM I�m in the same boat as you, I never understand when women are interested or when they are just being polite. I just wish that people would just say what is on their mind. But, if I say what is on my mind, women panic and run away. I guess the best advice for women is, did he ask you out on a date. That is what I would call a clue. Post Reply
View Profile History	Signs to look out for? Posted : 5 Mar, 2011 01:29 PM I agree with Gods' Lamb 1000% ! :applause:The same thing goes to females as well.I just want to say that you should always pray about that,i mean,if you're looking for a future spouse,it's best to pray to Jesus,& He'll show YOU the answer! I LOVE what God's Lamb said about the part about pressures of sex!That IS so TRUE for BOTH GENDERS!This is the thing about it: If the person goes to Church (that you're interested in of course),& they say & behave like a Non-Christian (always saying abusive language & loves immoral things etc),then most of the time,THEY'RE NOT A CHRISTIAN IN THE FIRST PLACE!!!!!!! Remember this also,if someone's there for you in the good times,but always negative or ends up running away from you in the bad times,then you know what kind of person they truly ARE. Post Reply
MommiSham10 View Profile History	Signs to look out for? Posted : 10 Mar, 2011 02:43 PM youre right Post Reply