Author	Thread: How much ?
Admin	How much ? Posted : 27 Jan, 2011 01:24 PM I am trying to not write a answer by myself but I want to ask you guys if you think it is christ-like to limit : 1. Age 2. Country 3. Believe 4. Profession 5. Interest 6. Color of the skin and maybe more... What kind of limits do you put up here ? If you are 40 how old do you like your woman to be ? Can you accept a woman from another country and if, from where can she be from ? Is it important with the same believe ? Is her profession important for you ? ...and so on ( I hope you understand my question/s ) Post Reply
View Profile History	How much ? Posted : 27 Jan, 2011 01:40 PM My answer may not be of much help in your endeavor, however it is truth. Be yourself, I for one am not interested in what you think I want. I am interested in who you are. Who you really are. Sometimes that is revealed by what you chose 'not' to share as much as what you chose to share. Be un-a-shame-bly Yourself with finesse and tact; confidence is attractive Post Reply
View Profile History	How much ? Posted : 27 Jan, 2011 01:45 PM I don't think it's un-Christ like to set limits. Even aliens know what they want.:excited: chevy Post Reply
View Profile History	How much ? Posted : 27 Jan, 2011 02:58 PM Limits are good. No reason to try to start a fire underwater Post Reply
View Profile History	How much ? Posted : 27 Jan, 2011 06:01 PM Setting limits because of age? Yes. People at different stages in their lives have different goals that can conflict. Country? Well, I don�t have a problem with the country, but I don�t have the finances to be able to go out and meet them, much less bring them to the US if I did want to marry someone, so I would limit by that. Belief? Absolutely! It is not good for two people who do not believe the same things to be married. A couple that doesn�t have a similar belief can get along as long as there are no children. Once the children come along, that�s when the knives come out, since each spouse wants the child to follow their belief. Profession? That would depend. For me, I would love to have a wife that is with me all the time. If either one of us had a profession that would take us away from each other for a long period of time, I wouldn�t like that. Interest? I think that would depend on how involved the other person would want them to be in their interest. For example, we had a woman on the forums who thought it would be great to go fishing with her boyfriend, until she found out that he didn�t want her to talk, since it would scare away the fish. Not a good match. Color of skin? How many different colors of skin are there? There is really only one, brown. There are a lot of different shades of it, but we are all brown. If your skin is a different color then brown, you need to see a doctor. :ROFL: Post Reply
View Profile History	How much ? Posted : 28 Jan, 2011 02:38 AM Yousaid: "Country? Well, I don�t have a problem with the country, but I don�t have the finances to be able to go out and meet them, much less bring them to the US if I did want to marry someone, so I would limit by that." Here do you show your FAITH and TRUST in God as you don�t think that God can give you everything you need to get your real wife from God. If you have faith, God will give you those money to travel to that person your heart feel is right. Work on your FAITH, my friend. Post Reply
View Profile History	How much ? Posted : 28 Jan, 2011 04:06 AM :prayingm::angel::prayingf: Post Reply
View Profile History	How much ? Posted : 29 Jan, 2011 07:32 AM I think it's good to set standards and limits. Hopefully, as we get older, we know what works for us and the things that are important to us. Quality of life and the quality of the relationship is very important to me. Spiritual awareness is very high on my list too. I prefer women younger than I and they should also be young at heart and adventurous otherwise I think they might be boring to me. Thunder Post Reply