Author	Thread: he said he needs some time to think
danceroftheLord View Profile History	he said he needs some time to think Posted : 19 Jan, 2011 01:06 AM hello guys... i need some help.. im in a relationship.. what does a guy mean when he said he needs some time to think? thank you Post Reply
IaoKim View Profile History	he said he needs some time to think Posted : 19 Jan, 2011 06:57 AM Most of the time it means exactly what he says . . . that he needs time to think! It is hard to objectively evaluate the relationship while constantly being in the middle of it. Guys need to be able to take a step back, see where the relationship is going and determine whether to advance the relationship or end it. So your best bet is to just give him the time he needs . . . remember love is patient! Don't build up any positive or negative assumptions about what he will do or say concerning the relationship until he has had a chance to think and to talk to you about it. If it has been a while and he still has not gotten back to you then you should gently ask how much more time he thinks he needs. If he keeps dragging his feet then you should probably do a little thinking of your own! Hope this helps! -Anthony Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	he said he needs some time to think Posted : 19 Jan, 2011 08:15 AM Yeah, I'm with Anthony on this one. Don't read too much into what he said until he comes back to talk to you. After all, he's the only one who can tell you exactly what's going on in his mind. Post Reply
View Profile History	he said he needs some time to think Posted : 19 Jan, 2011 09:38 AM I'm with Anthony also, but would like to add that 'sometimes' this is a indication that a relationship is going a bit faster than one is comfortable with. Kinda like their head needs to sync with their heart, their mind with their emotions. Post Reply
View Profile History	he said he needs some time to think Posted : 19 Jan, 2011 09:54 AM Don't want to be the party-pooper here but another reason he could have told you that is his polite way of saying I don't really want to be in this relationship any more. Instead of having to stick around and being up front with you and see your feelings get hurt his needing time to think may be an exit strategy. Hopefully that isn't the case-- and I've never done it but I've known guys who go away to think and never come back. Some girls use the need time to think escape plan too.:excited: chevy Post Reply
View Profile History	he said he needs some time to think Posted : 19 Jan, 2011 11:21 AM I think this could mean a bazillion things... It coult mean he just needs time to think... It could mean he does not want to continue in the relationship... No one would be able to pin point it as each person is different. I think you are the only one who would know best since your in the relationship. What does you gut tell you? Or, better yet... Just ask him directly. I hope that helps. :excited: Post Reply
danceroftheLord View Profile History	he said he needs some time to think Posted : 19 Jan, 2011 04:40 PM thanks everyone.... God bless you all :applause: Post Reply