Author	Thread: GUILTY PLEASURES: Do you love to be waited on hand and foot by a woman?
Admin	GUILTY PLEASURES: Do you love to be waited on hand and foot by a woman? Posted : 9 Jan, 2011 08:04 AM What do you love about being waited on hand and foot by a woman? How and why do you enjoy it and feel blessing in your heart to be so waited on? I admit that I am GUILTY of this pleasure!!! :dancingp::dancingp::dancingp: It's THE MOST BAREFOOT PLEASURABLE, though, when the waiting on is done because of love, rather than duty!!! :yay::yay::yay::hearts::hearts::hearts: Love, Steve Post Reply
View Profile History	GUILTY PLEASURES: Do you love to be waited on hand and foot by a woman? Posted : 9 Jan, 2011 09:49 AM I don't like the idea of being waited on hand and foot by a woman. My mama was like that with my dad and I just don't like it. I'd rather do it myself. chevy Post Reply
View Profile History	GUILTY PLEASURES: Do you love to be waited on hand and foot by a woman? Posted : 9 Jan, 2011 11:50 AM I don't like it either, I would rather do it myself. However I have been convicted that this 'can be' independence and pride in disguise. I now try to be more interdependent with a woman and humbly accept her help. But now I get peeved when she wants to be independent and won't accept my help. *sigh* Is there no end to this perfecting by God...lol Post Reply
stegoodie View Profile History	GUILTY PLEASURES: Do you love to be waited on hand and foot by a woman? Posted : 9 Jan, 2011 12:07 PM I think equal exchange is the way to go. Christ said we are to serve each other and who better to serve than your significant other? So I guess to answer the question, do I love being waited on hand and foot? My answer would be no. I would much prefer to serve a little and be served a little. In this way, both people get their "love tanks" filled so to speak. Post Reply
View Profile History	GUILTY PLEASURES: Do you love to be waited on hand and foot by a woman? Posted : 9 Jan, 2011 07:04 PM I wasn't asking this question with the thought that the man was always being waited on hand and foot by the woman and he never reciprocated in turn, "day in and day out" ... I was only reflecting on how special it is to take turns, in a loving helpmate relationship, doing things for each other, not as any kind of a "slave" but as an expression of your heart filled with love for each other ... say, on special days, perhaps, like each other's birthday, you give each other the gift of being "waited on hand and foot" for the day, as one way you make each other feel BAREFOOT SPECIAL to each other!!! :dancingp::dancingp::dancingp::hearts::hearts::hearts: Steve Post Reply
theDave View Profile History	GUILTY PLEASURES: Do you love to be waited on hand and foot by a woman? Posted : 9 Jan, 2011 07:59 PM dude, my friend ahmed's wife is a burka wearing muslim woman. before I went over to his house he instructed me not to get anything but that if I wanted something, he would have is wife get it for me... that was the most awkward experience of my life! It was beautiful to see that she would reserve her beauty for her husband alone; but I couldn't stand to have her with her tray putting snacks and drinks on the table for us and having her make coffee and serve it. Nope, i haven't been back since! I love my friend Ahmed tp death but I just don't feel comfortable with that. Post Reply
View Profile History	GUILTY PLEASURES: Do you love to be waited on hand and foot by a woman? Posted : 9 Jan, 2011 10:21 PM (Sorry for the long reply.) I don't think you should feel guilty about it. Your wife does it because she loves you. I grew up in the Middle East and so this is very common. My uncle is married and his wife absolutely loves to serve him down to peeling the banana for him! They are both godly people, who serve in their church, and worship and obey our Lord. She is by far the godliest (Christ-like) person I have ever come across. (And she is a very educated woman.) They both have full time jobs, and each shows his/her love to the other different ways. For example, let's say I get married and my wife decides she wants to stay home to take care of the kids. I would be showing my love to her and my children by working all day long to provide for them. She would show her love to me by serving me when I come home from a long day at work. We all have different ways to show our love, and we shouldn't judge others because we are unfamiliar with the way they express their love. Until today my mom cooks for me and makes sure she cooks what I like and is served the way I like it (even though I don't ask her to do so), because she says this is the best way she can express her love for me. If I actually don't let her cook for me or serve me she gets sad. I actually a lot about having a servant's heart from my mother. A lot of times we see those traditions as traditions of people who are "close-minded", but if we study the history of Biblical times we see almost everything they did we consider "close-minded" in our day and culture. Yet it was those people God used and we look up to them as godly examples. Sarah called Abraham her master, yet God called Abraham His friend--God didn't frown and wasn't upset with Abraham because Sarah submitted to Abraham's authority and role as the leader of the house. Post Reply
View Profile History	GUILTY PLEASURES: Do you love to be waited on hand and foot by a woman? Posted : 10 Jan, 2011 03:25 PM Well, I've been doing things for myself for so long now that it would be more than a bit uncomfortable for me. Post Reply
View Profile History	GUILTY PLEASURES: Do you love to be waited on hand and foot by a woman? Posted : 10 Jan, 2011 03:45 PM Hmmmmm........ *Googling : Middle Eastern Dating for Free* Post Reply