Author	Thread: A mans perspective of attractive
cjbloom View Profile History	A mans perspective of attractive Posted : 26 Dec, 2010 12:54 PM What do men find attractive in women when they first me them? Post Reply
Samheis View Profile History	A mans perspective of attractive Posted : 26 Dec, 2010 01:54 PM Hiya Cj, Well, obviously I can't speak for all guys, but I know for me the first thing I will notice is a smile. A nice, pleasant, natural smile is far more attractive than tight-fitting clothes or that 'just right' make-up. I really think a nice smile goes a long way on the internet as well, as it says a lot about your personality that a profile simply can't. I'm also a big sucker for a girl in a nice dress, but... that one's kinda tricky, since there are a lot of dresses out there that definitely would NOT fall under the attractive scale. On a converse note, I can't STAND when girls try to give the pouting lips! Sure, it can be attractive once you've known each other for a while, but when it comes out right off the bat... I just can't help but get the feeling she's trying too hard. But again, that's just me :laugh: Seth Post Reply
cjbloom View Profile History	A mans perspective of attractive Posted : 26 Dec, 2010 02:08 PM Thanks for the honesty, I never got the pouting lips things either. As a women seeing otherwomen posting this pics I think it portrays a sleezy demeanor. But that is just me. CJ Post Reply
View Profile History	A mans perspective of attractive Posted : 26 Dec, 2010 03:21 PM To me this is like asking what do you find beautiful about flowers when you look at them? Post Reply
View Profile History	A mans perspective of attractive Posted : 26 Dec, 2010 03:54 PM What do men find attractive? A bit vague of a question. If you mean, what do guys think is beautiful, well, it�s like Brandon said, it all depends on the guy. If you mean, how a woman interacts with a guy when they first meet, that also can be very individual, but there are some general suggestions. Be interested in him, what he does, what his interest are. Don�t wait for him to ask all the questions, ask some questions about him as well. Although I would skip the one about how much money he makes� Be open about yourself, don�t answer his questions with just a few words. It�s really annoying when you have to pull the answers out of someone. Your grooming habits also say a lot about yourself. You don�t have to dress really nice, or put lots of makeup on, or spend hours on your hair. Every guy has his �type� that he likes, but putting a little bit of effort into looking nice shows that you like who you are, and that is attractive as well. Post Reply
View Profile History	A mans perspective of attractive Posted : 26 Dec, 2010 04:08 PM I think a lot of women are more beautiful/attractive than they give themselves credit for. Which is something most of us guys don't realize because it's like the guy will see something totally different from what the girl sees. So to any female out there, I say take what you like about yourself, like it even more and take care of it, and look for somebody else that likes and appreciates that too about you too. The worst thing you can do is worry or doubt yourself thinking that what other people think about you is more important than what you think about you. For crying out loud, be proud of who you are, what you do, what you wear, how you carry yourself, what you look like. And be passionate about what you're passionate about. Like what you like. Care about what you care about. Some one will find it attractive I promise. Post Reply
View Profile History	A mans perspective of attractive Posted : 26 Dec, 2010 04:09 PM I guess it all comes down to self-esteem and self-awareness. Post Reply
cjbloom View Profile History	A mans perspective of attractive Posted : 26 Dec, 2010 05:52 PM Yes, I know the question was vague! I just wanted to get some dialogue started and it always lends to some interesting and thought provoking conversation. Thank you. :) Post Reply
View Profile History	A mans perspective of attractive Posted : 26 Dec, 2010 06:06 PM Well we know guys tend to be more visual. Having said that for me there`s a sweetness and softness that emanates from a girl that I find appealing when we first make eye contact. I just seem to pick that up in my spirit. Post Reply
WHISPERRED110AC View Profile History	A mans perspective of attractive Posted : 26 Dec, 2010 06:42 PM For me, it's the eyes. You can tell volumes about the beauty and personality by the eyes. There is nothing more charming or seductive(alluring) than the eyes. Having said that, I will admit in honesty, and apologetically that my eyes have done the "elevator stare". But for me it's the eyes. Post Reply
View Profile History	A mans perspective of attractive Posted : 26 Dec, 2010 06:43 PM :applause: @ Brandon Post Reply

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