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I've never Been Talked to Like this ever before!
Posted : 17 Dec, 2010 05:28 PM

What possesses a so-called Christian "gentleman" to talk like this to someone??? How in anyone's right mind am I coming off as a satanic person???

I won't give you all his name on here though, that's kind of rude.



*****: Hi

simply_sweet08: hi

*****: How are you?

****: I'm ******

simply_sweet08: I'm alright, just got home this evening for my winter break from college, you?

simply_sweet08: I'm Angela

*****: I own a large farm in *******

*****: what are you looking for in life now later whatever simply_sweet08: Well for now, I have 2 more years of college to get through, then I will be a Biology Teacher.

*****: So being a wife and mother is bottom of your list? simply_sweet08: Then, I will hopefully get a job, well being a wife and mother will be at the top if I find someone after I graduate basically

*****: You need to find a satanic site---you are no different than non-believing girls

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I've never Been Talked to Like this ever before!
Posted : 17 Dec, 2010 05:58 PM

First of all, I would recommend taking up this offense directly with the fellow. Perhaps you could send him a private message expressing your concerns.



Based on what his profile says, he's looking for a woman who believes in a strict following of the Titus 2 instruction for women to be busy at home. It sounds like he interpreted your responses to mean that you desire to work full time outside of the home rather than having a homeward orientation and staying home to raise your children.



Truly, though, he is the only one who knows what exactly he meant. I would send him off a message explaining that you don't understand his final comment to you and that you would like more specifics regarding why he doesn't find you to be a Godly woman.

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Posted : 17 Dec, 2010 06:11 PM

I understand his comment from that perspective, but as a Christian I've been taught to not be judgmental and respect all people for who they are. I just think it was harsh regardless of his beliefs to call me ungodly.

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Posted : 17 Dec, 2010 06:29 PM

Don't worry, there is some for everyone. He will probably find a gal before me, one that can take a good spanking!

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I've never Been Talked to Like this ever before!
Posted : 17 Dec, 2010 07:08 PM

The Pharisees didn't go anywhere just because Jesus came. They're still here. They just wear different clothes and sometimes use computers.

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Posted : 17 Dec, 2010 07:11 PM

This fella reminds me a little bit of the man in the story "is there a biblical precedence" that ThunderofGod posted in the biblical questions a day or 2 ago.... might be better to let this sleeping dog alone....

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Posted : 17 Dec, 2010 07:26 PM

That was my plan I'm not going to let it get to me, and I don't plan on bothering him over it, clearly not worth it.

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Posted : 17 Dec, 2010 07:27 PM

Sadly but true, some Christians are really rude and judgemental. I'm really sorry that u have to experience that =( I gotta say that even some non believers do have better characters and more polite compared to some "believers". Just don't let those kind of guys stop you from hoping. There are many nice Christian guys left for sure =)

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Posted : 17 Dec, 2010 08:01 PM

I'm not saying the guy is right, but was it right to take a private conversation and splay it in a public place? You met private scorn with public humiliation.

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Posted : 17 Dec, 2010 08:48 PM

i can agree with your point there Silver in most cases, but it looks as if she didn't provoke him to say what he said which was out of line in my opinion... and a little humiliation may bring about some consideration of his comment, maybe even an apology to her and chisel down that chip he's carrying around on his shoulder... which of hasn't said something stupid out of anger or spite and have to eat some humble pie?

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Posted : 17 Dec, 2010 09:50 PM

This site, and the world, is full of people who are very eager to point fingers and put you down. A lot of the people on here, I wonder if they are looking for somebody they like, or looking for as many people as they can that they don't. It seems like a lot of men on here are on a personal crusade to make all women who have any sort of life outside of a kitchen feel like prostitutes.

Water off your back, the world is full of angry people.

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