Author	Thread: being appreciated
anyann View Profile History	being appreciated Posted : 16 Dec, 2010 03:24 AM how important for you is to be appreciated by a woman; to hear true words of appreciation even about small things; how do you react on it? does it make a woman more beautiful in your eyes when she does it? Post Reply
View Profile History	being appreciated Posted : 16 Dec, 2010 06:05 AM I find the idea incredibly wonderful and refreshing. I also think it should be practiced by both genders towards their partners and not taken for granted by the received. I think we should get in the habit of find the good in others and letting them know. Let me explain why. I have realized I have started to form a somewhat negative opinion about getting married, for the reason I was starting to think that women were only ever going to nag me and complain about me. I've had a couple of negative experiences in the chat rooms here where I was attacked for a particular view. I've had women email me complaining about me not wanting to meet women on this site from a particular asian country since I get so many emails from there. I've had a couple of women not want to date me because I wasn't "spiritual" enough becuase I asked questions about things. I've heard women at work in offices talking badly about their husbands. So the idea that a woman finds good things and tells you those is really nice. And I do think I would find that woman more attractive. Just my two cents.... :) Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	being appreciated Posted : 16 Dec, 2010 06:11 AM Appreciation and respect are hugely important in relationships. If your actions don't show either, how can you expect to build a lasting relationship? Post Reply
View Profile History	being appreciated Posted : 16 Dec, 2010 08:09 AM I would think that this is something that everyone should be doing. It's SO easy to focus on the negative, but praising praiseworthy things is definitely a good thing! Post Reply
View Profile History	being appreciated Posted : 16 Dec, 2010 06:32 PM On this subject I defer to an expression that most men would affirm. "I would rather be unloved than unappreciated." It is part of how God made us, to be appreciated. And just saying the words, "I appreciate you" isn't enough. Your actions and expressions should leave no doubt that the mans efforts, hard work, love, etc is appreciated. When a man is appreciated it fills his love tank and encourages him that he is doing well at taking care of his woman. I think a man fears that his wife does not feel loved and protected. This is why God said that a man is to love his wife as Christ loves the church and that a woman should submit to her husband. This is a symbiotic relationship that when done correctly is a beautiful thing. I hope this helps. Post Reply
anyann View Profile History	being appreciated Posted : 17 Dec, 2010 11:21 AM thanks, it sure does :) Post Reply
View Profile History	being appreciated Posted : 17 Dec, 2010 12:13 PM The feeling of appreciation that comes from another determines what you think your worth or value is to them. In the world of friends it can make the difference between being friends or not. In the world of business it can make the difference between keeping a job or not. In the world of love it can mean the difference between fulfillment and emptiness. In the world of marriage it can mean the difference between devastation and a abundant vibratant relationship. If women only knew how easy it is to keep a man happy, the problem is they are to worried about getting taken advantage of or appearing weak, so they hold back. Show me a unappreciated married man and I'll show you a unhappy wife. Post Reply
View Profile History	being appreciated Posted : 17 Dec, 2010 01:13 PM Shared ~ If women only knew how easy it is to keep a man happy, the problem is they are to worried about getting taken advantage of or appearing weak, so they hold back. So very True 2Spar�its unfortunate that some women don�t understand that All men NEED Appreciation & Praise. Its part of how GOD made them. Gents Value their Accomplishments Intellectually & its Important to them that it is Recognized�Verbally�The same goes for Gals. Women NEED Appreciation & Praise also�its important that Recognition of what she does is Verbalized�Some women & men have been in relationships that were�well�not healthy in these areas or communications (verbal abuse / put downs) an tend to shy away for fear of repeating the same not so good choice�Unfortunately for those the issues have probly not been resolved� There are Always (3) Truths to Every situation in Relationships�Her Truth�His Truth an then The TRUTH�I believe Its best to look at the TRUTH to see the Other 2 Truths an get on with it�Communicate�:excited:... Your last statement ~ Show me a unappreciated married man and I'll show you a unhappy wife�.A good male friend of mine once told me when I asked him � How come you are always so happy ? Whats your secret ? He replied�� The Key to a Happy Life is a Happy Wife ��an He is a Very Happy Man�an that�s jus 1 Gents Truth�.:bouncy:...xo Post Reply
View Profile History	being appreciated Posted : 17 Dec, 2010 07:10 PM The horses that come see me on their own, and especially the ones that look into your soul,....the ones who appreciated me... I always throw them a little extra hay, not on purpose if you asked me, but it kinda is, I just like them better. Post Reply