Author	Thread: Would you brothers out there message more than one lady?
Admin	Would you brothers out there message more than one lady? Posted : 21 Nov, 2010 10:12 PM When i first jioned here five weeks ago,i've then tried to messaged about six or seven girls just to make friendship at least one lady.Out of all of those,only one responded.We were both messagingeach other for almost every two days now in those total of weeks.The problem for me is that some of the other girls have responded back & one of them put me on her favourite list & two of them wants me to email them or give mine to them. I honestly will not of course stop message the one i was in contact with all this time or i want to make the other girls think i'm really interested in them & have to admit that i was continuing to reply back to their messaging because of the thought of appearing to be rude or i'm ignoring them.My question is what would you do or done if you were in my shoes? Would you : 1: still message the other ones & make friends with them or 2: If it's no,then would you say without sounding harsh cuel & rejective 3: if yes would you give a girl your email or the other way around of who you do'nt know? Post Reply
View Profile History	Would you brothers out there message more than one lady? Posted : 21 Nov, 2010 11:07 PM I forgot 4: would this mean if you're a player if you message more than one!!!:ROFL::ROFL::ROFL: Just kidding!!!lollol!!!:laugh::laugh: Post Reply
i_live_in_canada View Profile History	Would you brothers out there message more than one lady? Posted : 22 Nov, 2010 01:42 AM ok I'm not a guy but I think it's fine to talk with a few at a time. Your not with one so why not? Post Reply
View Profile History	Would you brothers out there message more than one lady? Posted : 22 Nov, 2010 07:14 AM Thankyou, I Live in Canada.I will pray & think about my decision.To ALL of my brothers out there,thank for your views,but i will like to see your comments on this.I asked what would you do if you were in my shoes,not as to be taken as something i ask to you personally.I see some you said in a thread last week that you don't think that only one person is made for you so please don't be afraid to comment here as well. Post Reply
DontHitThatMark View Profile History	Would you brothers out there message more than one lady? Posted : 22 Nov, 2010 08:08 AM Before I was in a relationship, I had no problem messaging several girls at once. If you're not in a relationship, then it's not a big deal. You're probably not going to marry the first girl you talk to, so spread out a bit!:laugh: :peace::peace: Post Reply
View Profile History	Would you brothers out there message more than one lady? Posted : 22 Nov, 2010 01:11 PM If you don't have someting serious with anyone, chat it up. You can't put your life on hold for a person who you occationally talk to, with no real promise of anything solid happening between the two of you. If you guys were to meet, hit ot off and develop a real relationship then that would be different. Post Reply
View Profile History	Would you brothers out there message more than one lady? Posted : 22 Nov, 2010 01:30 PM Unless you've established that you're in an exclusive relationship with one of the girls, than I see nothing wrong with chatting with others. However, to help ensure that there are no misunderstandings, I would make it clear to the girls that you're getting to know several girls at this time. Sometimes, us ladies assume that something is more serious than it is or going in a direction that it isn't because we assume that a guy is talking only to us and that he's not all interested in anyone else. Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	Would you brothers out there message more than one lady? Posted : 22 Nov, 2010 03:15 PM If she isn't your girlfriend, and you aren't her boyfriend, talking with other girls isn't cheating. Heck, dating multiple people isn't cheating. You're just maximizing your resources. Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	Would you brothers out there message more than one lady? Posted : 22 Nov, 2010 04:13 PM I agree with what Pixy said...since she said it so well, I won't repeat it! Post Reply
View Profile History	Would you brothers out there message more than one lady? Posted : 22 Nov, 2010 04:15 PM Yes. I do it (with limited success, of course:goofball:), but mainly because I'm trying to make new friends from around the world. Being on the forums works much better, though. :dancingp: Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	Would you brothers out there message more than one lady? Posted : 22 Nov, 2010 10:42 PM I should probably clarify my statement. I meant that just because you go on a date with one woman doesn't mean you can't go on a date with another woman. I in no way condone dating other women while in a committed boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. Post Reply

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