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Question for the guys?
Posted : 7 Nov, 2010 05:15 AM

I had a man contact me and started talking IM, which progressed into texting and talking on the phone. After only a few weeks, he asked me when the wedding was? I thought he was kidding but he claims he is serious? I'm curious to know why a man would ask a woman this in such a short time? Also, we do live within driving distance but yet he makes no attempt to meet me? Curious to know your opinion?

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Posted : 7 Nov, 2010 06:08 AM

That's quite weird. Like, "Run the other way" weird.

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Posted : 7 Nov, 2010 06:14 AM

Yeah, I think it is very strange too!!! Thanks Tulip!!

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Posted : 7 Nov, 2010 06:54 AM

He may be a weirdo

He may be impatient

He may be insecure needing positive reinforcement

He may be feeling you out

He may be playing with you

He may be playing you

These are things you need to find out.

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Posted : 7 Nov, 2010 08:58 AM

I think he's not the one for you. He "wants to know when the wedding" is :stop: ?As iv'e said on Deedee27 post, "he's gone past desperate,he's hungry"!I also think he's lacks confidence in himslelf or he maybe thinking that his time is running short for a wife or he might want show his family & friends that he could get a woman in his life.I suggest you keeeeeeeeeep faaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaar from this man as possible:stop::stop::stop:!!!!!!!!!!!

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Posted : 7 Nov, 2010 10:04 AM

I think you are definitely right mrwiseguy!! Thanks for all the responses. I'm closing the door on this relationship!! I've been praying and God has answered!!

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Posted : 7 Nov, 2010 01:22 PM

If you have a low opinion of yourself you may move to fast because you worry you will never get the chance again. Your lonely and desperate so you do something drastic like ask a girl to marry you after 2 weeks.

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Posted : 7 Nov, 2010 04:43 PM

He seems mentally unhinged to me. I think you made the right call.

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