Author	Thread: What Men Want in Women ?
anyann View Profile History	What Men Want in Women ? Posted : 3 Nov, 2010 07:35 AM would be nice to hear your personal version Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	What Men Want in Women ? Posted : 3 Nov, 2010 07:44 AM I'm stealing my answer again from this thread, which is similar:http://www.christiandatingforfree.com/forum/forum_details.php?topic_id=6808&forum_sub_cat_id=9&start=0 First thing is that she's a girl. Call it gender discrimination if you want, but I'm only interested in hiring women for the position of "girlfriend." I'm a face guy, so a girl with gorgeous eyes and a great smile can catch my attention from across the room. Sundresses are a favorite of mine as far as clothing goes. I also tend to be much more drawn to outgoing, confident girls. None of that means anything if she isn't actively pursuing a stronger relationship with Christ and checking out theologically. Reformed is best, but if it's meant to be, I'm sure she'll convert! She's gotta have a sense of humor, as well as think I'm funny. Liking college football, being up for backpacking or camping, and other outdoorsy activities are huge plusses. Sharing an interest in music or food sounds trivial, but if she's gonna constantly be getting onto me for eating meat or hates country music, it isn't very likely to work out. I'm an amateur country music critic and songwriter, so I wouldn't appreciate being told my music is bad. If she gets far enough to meet my family, they've gotta like her too. After all, if my family doesn't like her, what sense does it make to make her family? The short list? She's gotta like Jesus, I've gotta like being around her, and I've gotta like looking at her. Post Reply
skinnywhiteboy View Profile History	What Men Want in Women ? Posted : 3 Nov, 2010 01:10 PM I look for strength. As a laborer, I want someone who can help me pick up heavy things if we have to move. A relationship with God is a must. Personally, I want her to want me. I need her to NOT need me. Post Reply
anyann View Profile History	What Men Want in Women ? Posted : 3 Nov, 2010 01:56 PM @skinnywhiteboy how could you explain the difference between want me (that is a good trait for you) and need me (that is not)? Post Reply
DontHitThatMark View Profile History	What Men Want in Women ? Posted : 3 Nov, 2010 02:22 PM I feel the same way. When someone "wants" to be with you, it's a free conscious choice. When someone "needs" to be with you, it would be like being in a relationship with a drug addict, except the drug is "you". That probably sounds really romantic in songs and poems and stuff, but when you think about it, that kind of love is worth less than the true kind. It's more like an obsession. :peace::peace: Post Reply
View Profile History	What Men Want in Women ? Posted : 3 Nov, 2010 09:44 PM I just want to say that for me ,importantly she must have not only faith,but love for god as well. if you read my profile you will see that i mostly want is you to be totaly honest with me with almost everthing that affects or disturbs you especially physically,mentally& emotionally - in other words, dont shut me out! As a loving pair, we should be talking about what is happening around us daily.Another thing is that we should share at least share or have one interest together whether it's music,sports,books,writing songs&poetry,cooking,art,giving advice to people,love children etc.but the #1 thing we should share is reading the for crying out loud! personsally,what iwant in a woman is a lovely shape&curves and beautiful eyes but of course you know, all of women are amazing and wonderfuly made by God! Post Reply
anyann View Profile History	What Men Want in Women ? Posted : 4 Nov, 2010 04:07 AM Tanks guys for your insight..it's true that being a "drug" for the other is not very healthy, and the partner actually is not responsible for ones well-being..it's a question of maturity Post Reply
View Profile History	What Men Want in Women ? Posted : 4 Nov, 2010 09:32 AM I'm looking for someone like the gal I describe on my profile that I'm looking for ... someone who is more LIKE me than not ... yet enjoys our uniqueness as individuals loving God and growing in Christlikeness as we are going through our sanctification processes together ... someone I can truly be a spiritual leader for in our loving relationship, as a husband is called to be ... and someone whose heart desires to be what a wife is called to be for her husband by God ... to respect, support, encourage, inspire, be a FANTASTIC BAREFOOT LOVER, BEST FRIEND and LIFE IN CHRIST MATE COMPLEMENT to me, as my heart desires to be to HER!!! :dancingp::dancingp::dancingp: ... and in each of us so doing, bringing honor, glory and praise to God in our love for each other and our example of true Christian love to others He's placed in our lives!!! I'm looking for a beautiful, to me, "barefoot gal" who shares some of my artistically creative interests and gifts and has the heart of a wife waiting to be joined as one to a guy like myself who has the heart of a husband waitinng to be joined as one to her heart of a wife ... I'm looking for a Christian "barefoot gal" whose heart is already a wife's heart in personality and need, just as my heart is already a husband's heart in personality and need ... I'm just not the life-long bachelor type in any way, shape or form ... and so ... only as long as it is God's plan for me to remain single in this lifetime will I be content to not be a Christian "barefoot gal's" Christian "barefoot guy" husband!!! :hearts::hearts::hearts: Guess that, basically, says it all about what my heart wants and needs in a woman, without repeating everything already shared in my profile and elsewhere here in other post questions I've answered that were asked of us guys in those post questions about what guys are looking for in a woman. Steve Post Reply
ninaray View Profile History	What Men Want in Women ? Posted : 15 Nov, 2010 11:08 AM Wow! Thanks guys for your words. The first thing in any ones life is not a need for man but the Lord Jesus Christ. Jesus is the reason most of us are hear, and to degrade someone for a passion or a love is wrong. Always stay positive and see the good in all that anyone does, never be a nag, and never turn a death ear to your mate that God has for you, for he will soon be the head of your house hold and you only can pray that he listens to God in all choices that are made i the house. Be a partner and not an hindrance and always stand by you man, even if it may not be the right choice. Express your concerns and then let it drop from there. Pray to Jesus that he will guide him and direct him on the path that God would want it their life and know that it is and will be the right choice. I read on most of your posts that you all have dealt with woman that didn't support you as you supported them, but Jesus is the team of you and the other that you grow to love and honor. I strive every day to be the Proverbs 31 woman, it is hard, but it is what I will be one day. I know it in my heart and soul. I hope my words where ok to write on here and I thank my friend who shared this link with me. I hope to find my mate and the one that Jesus has for me, until then, my husband is my father in heaven and I shall wait till God shows me the signs that he has for me as a mate. Not saying that I am not looking, trust me I am, but I want a MAN of GOD, not a man of lust or need of me. I want a man that needs Jesus as I know for sure I need Jesus in all choices that I make. Nina Post Reply