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How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days
Posted : 30 Oct, 2010 07:27 PM

What are some things that a woman could do early on in a relationship that would freak you out and possibly drive you away? (things like posting a link on your Facebook wall of the engagement ring she likes or stashing a box of feminine supplies in your bathroom cabinet or...)

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How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days
Posted : 30 Oct, 2010 08:39 PM

Calling a billion times a day

Getting upset cause I don't call her a billion times a day.

Jealous of my friends and hobbies.

Has to have her way 100% of the time.

Refuses to share my interests.

Cries for no visible reason.

Extreme PMS

Has to always be right.

Competitive on everything

Runs up high balances on her credit cards.

Affectionate one day and a touch- me- not the next.

So sorry, I bad . . .kinda got carried away. . .lol

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How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days
Posted : 30 Oct, 2010 09:02 PM

Hmm. Discussing the names of our children would be a big one. Another one would be discussing my will. :o

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How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days
Posted : 30 Oct, 2010 09:05 PM

Hmmm. I will need to keep that bit in mind about naming children. I know I've been guilty of that before. Although, sometimes it's the guy who brings it up first...

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Posted : 30 Oct, 2010 11:57 PM

@2

SOME of the points you mentioned are simply the differences of feminine nature..we ARE different and have some needs that men don't have:rolleyes:

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Posted : 31 Oct, 2010 01:03 AM

It may be feminine nature, but if you let the crazy out too quickly, you'll scare the good guys away. Let the crazy out slowly!

A big one for me is focusing on money (how much things cost, how much I've spent on her, etc.). I'm not going to try and buy a woman's affections. I'll put in effort, try to make her feel special, make her dinner, etc, but I'm not going to drop hundreds of dollars on a girl in the first couple months of dating.

Another is needing to be in constant contact. We have separate lives. We do not need to spend more than a couple nights a week together in the beginning, we do not need to text 24/7, and we do not need to talk on the phone every night before we go to bed.

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Posted : 31 Oct, 2010 05:15 AM

There is one point that I would differ on then what the guys have posted so far. My love language is quality time, and since I have plenty of time on my hands, spending time together every day wouldn't scare me away.



And the crying for no reason, Ann is right, that is just the way women are. You just have to learn to hug them until they stop crying and not worry about the why.



Waht would scare me away is not being open and constantly giving half-hearted answers, showing that you don't trust me enough to share your feelings with me.

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Posted : 31 Oct, 2010 05:21 AM

@Cobbler

thank you for understanding that one of women's biggest needs is emotional support and willingness to understand our emotional needs not neglecting them:applause:

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Posted : 31 Oct, 2010 05:30 AM

@Cobbler

lol, you are a better man than I. Been there done that :

*girlfriend crying for no reason*

*give her a sweet hug and say"darlin it's ok"

* she says in a demon voice straight from the pit of hell, " get away from me don't touch me! "



Ahhhhhh!

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How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days
Posted : 31 Oct, 2010 05:45 AM

P.S. if you take care of w.'s emotional - your sexual needs in all probability will also be met

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Posted : 31 Oct, 2010 08:01 AM

About the number one for me would be that she's pregnant. I wouldn't not date a girl because she's pregnant even though I admit it'd be a little awkward but it'd be even worse if she failed to mention the fact to me.

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