Author	Thread: Pushy, pushy,pushy....
Admin	Pushy, pushy,pushy.... Posted : 14 Aug, 2008 05:33 PM How do you handle a guy that is "pushy"....? Many women are new or out again to this dating thing...Can you give the ladies a bit of advise on how to handle someone overly aggressive toward them...Even in the Christian arena. Robin Post Reply
Revelation22 View Profile History	Pushy, pushy,pushy.... Posted : 14 Aug, 2008 08:03 PM I'd just tell the guy who is being overly aggressive in no uncertain terms to BACK OFF. We usually will do just that ! Some may learn from their mistake; some may only move on to someone else to be pushy with. Either way, by truthfully letting them know their advances are unacceptable, you will probably accomplish your desire to stop them. :rocknroll:revelation22 Post Reply
hedgedweller View Profile History	Pushy, pushy,pushy.... Posted : 15 Aug, 2008 03:55 AM good sujestion REV 22,,,, Or else find a big brother to push him back,,:devil: My grandmother would've took a bat to him,,, or her 38,,, ,, sorry,, that kinds of makes me madd to think a guy is pushy with women,,, Are you talkiing in the physical sense or just iwth his poersonality or with words,,,? Just tell him toback off,,, he should at that point. Post Reply
View Profile History	Pushy, pushy,pushy.... Posted : 15 Aug, 2008 04:24 PM For me it is actually invading my space...ie...I like to swim. I have a membership at a gym where I can do water aerobics and laps. I dress modestly. I am a steady swimmer but not a fast swimmer. The other night this guy kept literally swimming around me, under me and coming up in front of me and right next to me ...too close for comfort...looked at me but never said a word and I ignored him. He intimidated me. I went over close to other people and waited until he left. It ruined my swim time and I really can't say anything because he didn't even say a word. I felt like I was shark bait. I usually go after work which puts me there between 8-9pm...no choice...and by myself...no choice. I haven't been back for a week due to an injury to my leg so don't know if it was just a one time encounter and really don't want to find out. Is there a safe way to handle this. Robin Post Reply
Revelation22 View Profile History	Pushy, pushy,pushy.... Posted : 15 Aug, 2008 05:13 PM strawberi, Since hedgedweller and I aren't there to tell this guy to leave our little "sister" alone; I am asking God to send in the A team and if he continues to Push, he will feel the presence of the Lord so strongly; he'll think twice and swim along his merry way. :rocknroll:revelation22 Post Reply
View Profile History	Pushy, pushy,pushy.... Posted : 15 Aug, 2008 06:16 PM Thank you revelation22...It's greatly appreciated. Robin Post Reply