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She's just really that into you
Posted : 12 Oct, 2010 09:50 AM

So.. Continuing my last topic I posted about "he's just not that into you", so what kind of responses you guys expect to get if she's just really that into you?

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She's just really that into you
Posted : 12 Oct, 2010 10:05 AM

Do you expect her to pm you every time you get online?



Do you expect her to bluntly say "I am interested in getting you know better"?



Do you expect her to drop a line even tho in your status you put "busy" sign?

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She's just really that into you
Posted : 12 Oct, 2010 10:27 AM

No

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No

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Posted : 12 Oct, 2010 01:22 PM

If she's "really that into me" I expect her to be "up front" about it and show it in her treatment of me, her words and deeds expressing God's love in her heart and spirit toward me .. nothing more, nothing less than this ... and THEN some!!! :hearts::hearts::hearts:



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Posted : 12 Oct, 2010 03:12 PM

Well, I would like her to flirt with me. It's hard to break down what flirting is and isn't. I mean, I can try if you really want. I've always liked playful banter or arguing. It makes it a challenge to get you to agree with me, but we can have fun at the same time, we both know the other isn't serious, and it sets our interactions apart from the way you interact with platonic people. Throw in the occasional smack on the arm in response to a little bit of an edgy comment, a slight brush of the hand here and there, etc., and you can further differentiate yourself. Of course, I love being baked for. Cheesecake leads straight to my heart! When I ask for your number, you give it to me, and when I try to set up a date, you should agree to go. One way I pick up on a girl being into me is if she can't do something, but suggests another date instead. Also, messaging me on fb chat, texting me first, or randomly writing on my wall are good ways to use technology to flirt.

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Posted : 12 Oct, 2010 03:13 PM

Don't smother me though! A message or instant message every time I get online, or always talking to me when we're in the same place is going to drive me away!

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She's just really that into you
Posted : 12 Oct, 2010 03:22 PM

Oh, compliments work too. I like compliments.

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She's just really that into you
Posted : 12 Oct, 2010 06:06 PM

Brownies AND cheesecake lead to MY heart, Tulip ... served up in bare feet, blue jeans and a purple shirt ... or ... bare feet and a flowery purple summer dress!!! :hearts::hearts::hearts::yay::yay::yay:



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She's just really that into you
Posted : 12 Oct, 2010 06:26 PM

Oh, I do love sundresses! Hahaha

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She's just really that into you
Posted : 12 Oct, 2010 06:32 PM

That is an excellent question, JesusLovesYouAndMe.



I don't expect anything, but here's what affection/attraction looks like to me: long meaningful emails (or old-fashioned mail), flirty/cutesy things that suggest that she's thinking of me, sending me info about stuff I'm into but didn't know about, willingness to adjust her schedule to interact with me, trying new things together (or each of us trying something that the other enjoys), and all these things done not to excess so that I look forward to interacting more with her tomorrow. Doing these things online is probably a bit more challenging than doing so in real life, but it can be done.

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Posted : 12 Oct, 2010 07:30 PM

Thanks for the responses you guys =)



By that so, what's the difference between a woman showing she's into you, or she's being aggressive?

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