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Marie7

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question for men 50 and older---though anyone can answer
Posted : 11 Oct, 2010 06:29 PM

Why is it at even 50 and older most men on here are looking for women way younger than they are? I am 52 but I feel I have a young mind. I love the Lord, love life, my family and have a good heart yet I feel like the only way to a man's heart is to be 20-30.



Dont Christian men EVER care for a woman because of inner beauty?

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Posted : 11 Oct, 2010 06:45 PM

I am 51 my last girl friend was 31, the one before that was 25 ; I'm cured ; now looking for someone my own age. The only problem ; it is difficult to find a active in shape woman in my age bracket to do things with.

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Posted : 11 Oct, 2010 07:07 PM

Girl, I of course can't answer for men 50 and older since I'll never be one. They are all from Mars. I can't understand the ones my age let alone the older ones and no hope of understanding the whipper snapper younger ones.:rolleyes:



I just wanted to tell you that you have way more than just inner beauty going on. True beauty radiates from the inside out & you are beautiful.

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Posted : 11 Oct, 2010 07:40 PM

Thank you 1babygirl and two sparrows for your replies. I see a lot of people have read this question but little response. I am really hoping to get a better understanding of people in general.



Perhaps trusting God to bring two people together is just the best way to go.

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Posted : 11 Oct, 2010 07:57 PM

Hun don't worry about those guys. I think the best approach to dating is to not look for it. Just continue doing your every day things. Be in places with enough other nice christian people and a good man may be amongst the bunch.



I see it all the time in the guys profile. They have the age set way lower then they are. You look at there pictures and laugh! Come on unless your very wealthy young women want young men. I'm 37 and I would never date a guy my dads age. Actually since being an adult most the guys I have dated have been a year or so younger then I. Just how it turned out and I am not into much younger guys either.



So let the disillusioned men that want to try to recapture there youth by dating there daughters friends continue. All they are doing is hurting there selves in the end. They may be able to snag a younger one while they are still ok looking but time is ticking. Those young girls will be long gone and all that is left is a old and broken man.

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question for men 50 and older---though anyone can answer
Posted : 11 Oct, 2010 08:03 PM

To answer your question, no. Christian men never pursue Christian women for their inner beauty alone, because Christian men need to feel attracted to the women they pursue. I_Live_in_Canada has it right, though; very few women 20-30 want anything to do with a 50 year old man, so these men are wasting their lives. I don't see the point of it, either. I look for women +/- 7-8 years or so, because anything past that gets creepy and becomes difficult to "get" the other person because of age differences.

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question for men 50 and older---though anyone can answer
Posted : 11 Oct, 2010 09:06 PM

Well I have some thoughts on the matter but would people listen with an open mind?

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Posted : 11 Oct, 2010 09:35 PM

If a man who is 50 still wants to have kids, he's gonna have to look younger, since it's incredibly unlikely that a 50 year old woman will be able to get pregnant.

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Posted : 11 Oct, 2010 09:43 PM

Marie, didn't mean to not replying but I dun really have any idea about it. But I agree with others here, u are beautiful inside out =) no worries for that.



Rabbit, throw it :goofball:

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Posted : 11 Oct, 2010 10:11 PM

Go for it, Rabbit!

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Posted : 11 Oct, 2010 10:55 PM

All righty than

These are inferences based off of my own observations, therefore it doesnt reperesent all men. Since I have been single again (and a psychology student), Ive noticed some trends. Ill list them one at a time to give people to respond, or just chew my butt I guess if they want lol.



It seems like to me the younger you go the more visually appealing women are; maybe its due to avaliability relative to my own age. Ive noticed women can be affected by age more drastically than men. Which raises a concern for me going after women more than 9-10 years younger than me, especailly if they havent had kids yet.



So Im speculating that one reason men in their 50s are going for women in their 20s to 30s is perhaps because of phisical attraction.



to be continued (but please respectfuly share your views, cause i mean no disrespect to anyone)

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