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Admin	He's just not that into you.. (the book/movie) Posted : 10 Oct, 2010 02:56 AM is this book/movie, a fact or a total lie? Post Reply
DEEDEE72 View Profile History	He's just not that into you.. (the book/movie) Posted : 10 Oct, 2010 05:27 AM The book is awesome....Women tend to talk other women into pursueing men that are not interested. Forgetting that men and women find different things attractive. "How could he not like you, you wear the cutest shoes" lol Whenever I find myself feeling like I need to talk to a girlfriend about a guy issue.....I know he is not that into me and I move on... If you have ever been genuinely pursued by a guy you know the difference... The movie was ok..But then I think Jennifer Anistan makes every movie she is in terrible I have bought countless copies of this book to pass out to girl friends. You can never loan someone your copy because of the stuff you write and the guys names beside certain sections...lol My favourite line from the book: "An excuse is polite rejection" Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	He's just not that into you.. (the book/movie) Posted : 10 Oct, 2010 07:23 AM The problem you're most likely to run into with this question is that most men haven't seen the movie, much less read the book. Post Reply
View Profile History	He's just not that into you.. (the book/movie) Posted : 10 Oct, 2010 07:52 AM :ROFL: Jennifer Aniston. Haven't noticed that one lol Well, I haven't read the book yet, but I watched it on Oprah when it was launched, and (if I'm not mistaken), here were some cases the audience asked (all who asked were females) I remember: 1. A lady asked why the guy was so distant after they had sex, before they slept together they were best friends. But the lady felt that night they slept together was so amazing, like "having fireworks". Just as simple as the title was, the author was simply just saying "he's just not that into you". 2. A lady asked why the man who had been living together with her for years but hadn't proposed yet, tho the woman had told him that she wanted to get married. Again, the same answer came out from the author's mouth, and of course, the lady cried (caught by the camera). My next question is, does it apply to all men? Or the author was wrong? Since not all men are not shy? I have heard that some men are afraid of being rejected, even tho they are interested in the woman. By that said, maybe the men are only interested in the woman, but just not really that into the woman? Any opinion? Tulip, yeah thanks for reminding lol I have added a lil description up there :goofball: Post Reply
View Profile History	He's just not that into you.. (the book/movie) Posted : 10 Oct, 2010 08:03 AM Hmmm I think I have to add a little more info about the book/movie, well it was basically just tellng that men are hunters, so when they are interested, they will hunt. Means they would "get" the woman they are chasing, and no matter what it takes, they will ensure that the woman knows, no matter what approaching methods they are using or just sending "signals" over and over again until the woman realize that she was being "hunt". Another info needed to be added here about the book/movie, please do add it up here :applause: Post Reply
View Profile History	He's just not that into you.. (the book/movie) Posted : 10 Oct, 2010 08:29 AM I wish it was that simple; Some men enjoy the hunt more than the catch Some women enjoy being hunted but never want to be caught Some men will hunt what they can't catch Some women try to bait men who will never hunt them Some men are afraid to hunt out of their league Some women we hunted by a man below their league call it stalking Some men have given up hunting because they have hunted women who just love to be hunted Some women have taken up hunting when their bait isn't working Be anxious for nothing All things by prayer Present your requests to God And He will guard your heart and mind in Jesus IT'S IN THE BOOK! Post Reply
View Profile History	He's just not that into you.. (the book/movie) Posted : 10 Oct, 2010 09:55 AM Ok.. Now I am getting confused lol Isn't there just any tips telling us (women) whether a guy is interested or not? Some women are terrible in reading signals men give out when they're interested, ya know.. Lol. Help? :prayingm: Post Reply
View Profile History	He's just not that into you.. (the book/movie) Posted : 10 Oct, 2010 11:30 AM Here's a few tips to tell when a guy is "just not that into you" He takes more than 24 hours to reply to your emails, phone calls or text messages. He doesn't use your name. He doesn't touch you. (never brushes up against you, holds your hand, sit close to you) He doesn't initiate contact. (You have to call him first) He brings a "friend" with him on a date. If he talks about your friends more than you. He doesn't introduce you to his friends. If he asks you if you have any "hot" sisters. If you invite him somewhere and he says he can't make it and then you see him there anyway. He doesn't want to meet your family. He always has an "emergency" He desn't laugh at your jokes. He blocks you on Facebook. Post Reply
View Profile History	He's just not that into you.. (the book/movie) Posted : 10 Oct, 2010 11:42 AM Generally speaking, I think that what edw said is spot on. As far as showing he's truly interested, it would be the opposite of those things. What can be difficult is when the guy sends mixed signals!! 1/3 of his signals will be saying, "I'm just not that into you," while the other 2/3 will be saying, "I'm very into you." In that case... you just have to give it time sometimes and see how things play out. Or, if you're actually in a relationship with someone who's sending mixed signals, it might be a time for a conversation--the kind where you say something like: "I feel like I'm getting mixed signals from you and sometimes it feels like you're not serious about me. Could you help me evaluate our relationship and determine if this is really going anywhere?" Post Reply
DEEDEE72 View Profile History	He's just not that into you.. (the book/movie) Posted : 10 Oct, 2010 11:54 AM I think this is one area where a woman should trust her feelings (guy). If you have to ask if a guy is interested (or yourself for that matter) he is not. One day we will all (hopefully) be classified as the one for someone. The person they have been praying to God to bring into their lives. How would you treat that person if you met them? Our true Christian brothers will treat us with respect and not lead us on. He will communicate with you that he would like to pursue a relationship. You will not have to wonder... Post Reply
View Profile History	He's just not that into you.. (the book/movie) Posted : 10 Oct, 2010 12:03 PM Well said, DeeDee. Post Reply

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