Author	Thread: No call
ashyah View Profile History	No call Posted : 9 Oct, 2010 05:51 PM Why does a guy take you out then doesn't call?He said he liked me and thought I was beautiful so, here it is seven days after and not even a hi. It doesn't really hurt me but,I want to hear from you men. Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	No call Posted : 9 Oct, 2010 05:53 PM Maybe he didn't really like you as much as he thought he would? That's generally the only reason I don't call a girl back. Post Reply
View Profile History	No call Posted : 9 Oct, 2010 06:08 PM What would it hurt them just to say in a kind way, that they dont think it would work out or something like that and not leave a girl hanging? Post Reply
View Profile History	No call Posted : 9 Oct, 2010 07:23 PM I know I'm not a guy, but I might be able to provide some insight from my guy friends who have answered questions for me. They say cause they don't want to face the possible emotional fallout. They don't want to outright reject so they take the indirect route and figure the woman will get the hint when they don't call. Hope it helps. Post Reply
SilverFire View Profile History	No call Posted : 9 Oct, 2010 09:42 PM Bg is right. The guy may also have changed his mind between now and then. But this is not a gender-specific thing. Girls do the same thing. I've had girls say that they would email, get in touch, and so on and never do. Post Reply
i_live_in_canada View Profile History	No call Posted : 10 Oct, 2010 02:30 AM Yes it's not just a man thing. I am guilty of that same type of behaviour. In my mind it would be kinder to let them down slowly. I try to treat people like I would want to be treated. If I went on a date and the guy was not that interested I would want him to just not call me. I would be hurt if he said " actually I realized I am not really into you". Oh one thing that could have happened is you came on too strong? Just a thought. I have had lots of guys turn me off that way. I went on a blind date once just for the fun of it. I had no expectations of it becoming any thing and just thought it would be fun. He came on way too strong! Called me many times after. It made me never want to talk to him again. I'm not saying that's the case but if you did come on a bit strong just hold back a bit next time. People like a challenge. If you throw your self at him he will be less interested. Humans are so silly. The less interested I am the more they are. For your next date act uninterested and he will be calling you non stop :hearts: Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	No call Posted : 10 Oct, 2010 07:40 AM I'm with you part of the way, since to a certain degree it makes sense, and because I know it works. That said, if you act too uninterested, the guy will assume that pursuing you is a waste of time. I was informed last night through a mutual friend that a girl I used to have a crush on likes me (apparently so much that her friend thought it was worth telling me). She never showed a passing interest in me though, so that crush died a long time ago. I don't even really know what to do now. The guys you want to date are going to have options, or at least know that other options will be coming down the line at some point. Act too uninterested, and he'll just find someone else. Post Reply
i_live_in_canada View Profile History	No call Posted : 10 Oct, 2010 12:43 PM Well I was joking about acting uninterested. Being unattainable they will eventually move on. Just play it cool. Show interest by talking and listing but not trying to push it along fast. Let them pursue you. Just pretend they are a friend you are enjoying a nice day with. Don't talk about relationships and where you hope this will go. Let it gradually grow and build. Most people rush the relationship along so fast they have no idea who the person really is and end up disappointed in the end. Post Reply
i_live_in_canada View Profile History	No call Posted : 10 Oct, 2010 01:00 PM Tulip just had to complement you on your picture. It's very classy looking! Like some thing from a gentlemen's fashion magazine. Post Reply
ashyah View Profile History	No call Posted : 10 Oct, 2010 08:28 PM Yes, Tulip that is a neat picture of you in the rocking chair.I looked at all your photos too. I didn't talk about my past relationships actually he did. I am being careful what I say on a date. He actually talked too much about his first wife. I just would like to improve myself. Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	No call Posted : 10 Oct, 2010 08:31 PM Hahaha thanks! It was taken at a wedding in South Georgia, but if a guy's gonna claim to be a gentleman, he better dress the part. No graphic Ts or cargo shorts for this guy! Post Reply

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