Author	Thread: first kiss
Admin	first kiss Posted : 5 Oct, 2010 12:07 PM When is it appropriate for a couple to introduce kissing into the relationship? Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	first kiss Posted : 5 Oct, 2010 01:50 PM Unless it's a quick peck under the mistletoe at Christmas (just 'cause I know Dennis will point that out! :nahnah: :ROFL: )... For me personally, I think sometime between the engagement and wedding would be the right time. I'm extremely grateful that my last boyfriend and I didn't kiss. We held hands, hugged, and enjoyed being with each other, but we didn't kiss. We both felt that kissing should be much later. And since that relationship didn't work out, I'm glad I don't have those particular memories to deal with...the break-up was hard enough as it was! Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	first kiss Posted : 5 Oct, 2010 02:09 PM I'm gonna go with "sometime later in the relationship." I haven't figured out exactly when I think it's best, but I do know it isn't wise to start out early. Post Reply
View Profile History	first kiss Posted : 5 Oct, 2010 04:04 PM Unless the Word specifically says that something is a sin, then I look for a biblical principle it can be categorized under. The Word speaks about touching, possibly being burned but it doesn't say, thou shalt not kiss unless thouest is married. I don't think there is a appropriate or inappropriate time, but it's as personal as your own relationship with God. The main avoidance being the spirit of lust and fornication. If you can't kiss without yielding to either of those, then I wouldn't mess with it til married. I personally have no timetable, just whenever it feels like the right time. Post Reply
SilverFire View Profile History	first kiss Posted : 5 Oct, 2010 05:17 PM I agree with 1babygirl, and I will add this. You've got to look inside yourself and go to God with it. I know people who really couldn't control themselves once they started kissing. For them, it'd be best not to kiss until the marriage night. Generally, though, I'd say once that you are exclusive is a good time. Post Reply
Rabbit32 View Profile History	first kiss Posted : 5 Oct, 2010 08:10 PM The words indicated in Bold are censored from the CDFF Forum: I concur...darn i used a big word and i dont htink i spelled it right. I want to wain until Im on the marriage alter again... Post Reply
View Profile History	first kiss Posted : 5 Oct, 2010 09:05 PM I still remember my first kiss, where it was, what her lips felt like and how it made me feel. Oh, I would so love to feel that again! It seems like the more.people you kiss the less meaning it has and the less exciting. I think kissing should be a gift reserved for only the most special by which it will always be special to you. There is a answer in there some where if you can find it! Post Reply
View Profile History	first kiss Posted : 5 Oct, 2010 09:10 PM Ha ha after all that., there is a picture of me kissing a horse. . Just figured I would beat you observant ones to the punch. . Lol Post Reply
View Profile History	first kiss Posted : 6 Oct, 2010 04:03 AM I think it depends on what kind of kisses we are talking about here. If it's a kiss of lust or we are not sure we could hold ourselves after the kiss, probably wise to just wait until we walk down the aisle. If it's just an expression of love and care, maybe like kiss in the forehead or cheeks, it would be fine before marriage. I agree with others tho, maybe we should not start it that soon =) Post Reply
View Profile History	first kiss Posted : 6 Oct, 2010 04:03 AM I think it depends on what kind of kisses we are talking about here. If it's a kiss of lust or we are not sure we could hold ourselves after the kiss, probably wise to just wait until we walk down the aisle. If it's just an expression of love and care, maybe like kiss in the forehead or cheeks, it would be fine before marriage. I agree with others tho, maybe we should not start it that soon =) Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	first kiss Posted : 6 Oct, 2010 05:53 AM JesusLoves, good point. I was assuming we were talking about kissing on the lips. Of course, there are varying degrees of that, too! TwoSparrows, I think you have a good point about that first kiss...which is why I'm glad I've not kissed anyone yet. I expect it will be a very special moment, and I'll have especially fond memories of it, so I don't want to also have negative feelings toward the person that I kissed if the relationship doesn't work out. Goodness that was a long sentence...did it make any sense at all? Post Reply

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