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Bree_hir2help

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WHAT IS YOUR REASON??
Posted : 29 Sep, 2010 07:34 AM

I'm just curious.. why is it that people tend to choose attractive partner than smart or nice one..



It would be really great to have someone who's attractive and really tall, but what's the point of all that if you only end up getting hurt?

I'd rather choose a person who's intelligent and nice than to have a handsome partner but not happy,,



i used to say that the reason i wanted to meet a handsome guy is because of his genes,, i mean,, having a handsome husband means good looking kids right..

but i realized that if that beautiful genes has a really bad attitude with it,,hmmm.. that really beats the purpose.. cause even handsome guys look ugly when they're not nice.



how bout you? what's you're reason for choosing beauty over manners?

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DontHitThatMark

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Posted : 29 Sep, 2010 08:02 AM

I look for the whole package. I'm not going to marry someone I'm not attracted to, I'm not going to marry someone that I'm not compatible with, and I'm not going to marry someone that doesn't love/trust/respect me. I don't believe true "attraction" is completely physical. Like you said, even the most handsome man is ugly when he's mean/abusive/controlling. I think real "attraction" is controlled by many factors, but I do believe being attracted to your future spouse is very important. I think "attraction" has been a little twisted by "the world" to only mean "I love your body", when it should be "I love your mind/body/soul".





:peace::peace:

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Tulip89

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WHAT IS YOUR REASON??
Posted : 29 Sep, 2010 08:25 AM

Mark hit the nail on the head.

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Rabbit32

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Posted : 29 Sep, 2010 09:30 PM

Well if attractive people beget attractive people than my kids would be at a disadvantige. As it stand God decided to bless them with cuteness despite my looks :winksmile:

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Posted : 30 Sep, 2010 07:35 AM

Who says we do? Who says you can't have both?

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