Author	Thread: Who You Are
Admin	Who You Are Posted : 26 Sep, 2010 02:16 PM You are what you do. If you want to know who you are, then be objective and take stock of what you do and accept it. If there is something you want to change then change it. Be respectful of the other person's feelings too. If what they want isn't what you are, don't hold it against them. Either they are worth changing something about yourself for, or they are not. It's up to you to decide if they're worth it. What other people do is who they are too. Use that to decide if they are worth it. If you want to be the kind of person that can get that kind of girl then be it because that's who you want to be, not what other people say you should be or what you think other people say you should be. Something I'm starting to realize. Hopefully it makes sense. Stop judging other people for their preferences or weaknesses and start focusing on, taking responsibility for, and working on yours you will begin to see the change, be the person, and attract the people you want to. It will get you a lot further than just hormone driven frustration. Post Reply
DEEDEE72 View Profile History	Who You Are Posted : 26 Sep, 2010 06:41 PM Can you share a little more, please? :glow: Post Reply
View Profile History	Who You Are Posted : 26 Sep, 2010 07:03 PM Right on, Brandon!!! A GREAT post ... sounds like you've really been doin' some serious thinking and discovering wisdom on this topic from God's Word and the Holy Spirit!!! :yay: It certainly helps every relationship to KNOW who you are and who aren't as well as who the other person is and who THEY are not!!! If a change is necessary for either of you for the other person's sake out of love, you'll be able to perfect it as you are willing to seek, know and do God's will for your relationsship with that other person in love!!! :yay: If there was a dictionary that gave a definition of WHO STEVE McLEAN IS now in his character, personality, relationship to and with God, his loves, hates, joys and sorrows, here is what MY definition would include so far: 1) Loves God with all his heart, mind, spirit and strength!!! ... and THEN some!!! :hearts: 2) Is a "barefoot guy" who LOVE, LOVE, BAREFOOT LOVES "barefoot gals" and hopes to be married again to GOD'S BAREFOOT BEST ONE FOR HIM in God's timing and blessing!!! 3) Is artistic 4) Is amiable, gentle, kind, fun-loving and romantic 5) Loves sex, brownies, horses, music, barefoot picnics, and long hair on a gal!!! (not necessarily in that order!!!) 6) Hates bigotry, stupidy, thoughtlessness, insensitivity, uncontrolled anger and down-right rudeness!!! 7) Loves peas, carrots, green beans and potatoes; hates broccoli, brussel sprouts, olives, liver and cottage cheese!!! 8) Is sometimes a silly kook, loving to laugh and be silly, but always polite, courteous and thankful for help, favors and all of God's blessings and lessons in life!!! :yay::bouncy::yay: 9) Has been heart-broken many times in his lifetime, but also healed and encouraged and comforted by God throughout all those disappointing, discouraging experiences!!! :yay::yay::yay: There, of course, is a LOT more to define WHO STEVE McLEAN IS, as there is with all of us, but I think this covers the basics pretty well ... only God knows fully who we are in our hearts and LOVES us fully as who we are and who we are becoming as we grow and are molded into His perfect creation in time!!! :yay::applause::yay::applause::yay::rocknroll::hearts: Steve Post Reply
View Profile History	Who You Are Posted : 26 Sep, 2010 09:42 PM @DEEDEE: My initial reaction: Share more!?! LOL. But yes fair enough I'll try. I suppose it could be applied by people when they start thinking am I too nice? Am I too average? Am I too ugly? Am I too boring/shy/uninteresting/immature/naive? Or whatever gets you caught up in trying too hard and worrying too much about not getting disqualified by women. Questions like this are usually answered with "Just be yourself" However they know or think that just being themselves will not get them the girl so they keep trying, keep getting their hopes up, and keep trying to change or not change and it just goes in circles because they don't know if it's "them" or not to maybe be a better dresser, work out, be more social and it's also common to forget or be unsure of who you are and wonder if what you're putting all this worry and effort into is worth it or if it will come off as trying too hard or just worrying too much about and/or being compeletly unaware of how you come off to other people I just wanted to remind and encourage people with this. Choose to be yourself and be your best self. Post Reply
View Profile History	Who You Are Posted : 27 Sep, 2010 12:09 AM Amen, Brandon, to everything you encouraged everyone with!!! Thanks, bro'!!! Steve Post Reply
DEEDEE72 View Profile History	Who You Are Posted : 27 Sep, 2010 11:10 AM Thanks for expounding...I read what you had written first and was not to sure of what you meant...I used to be the girl that said she liked whatever he did. I rarely had an opinion and was willing to change everything to be with a guy. That was many years ago. It took me a while to "find myself." Sad to say Christain dating seems for the most part to be like worldly dating. You have to sell yourself. Our main focus should be to be more like our father and be transformed by the renewing of our minds. I have noticed as I have done that I am starting to be more attracted to the God in the person. Post Reply
View Profile History	Who You Are Posted : 28 Sep, 2010 03:00 PM Trust GOD! Post Reply