Author	Thread: Synergy and Relating and Leadership
Admin	Synergy and Relating and Leadership Posted : 5 Sep, 2010 11:05 PM I'm a big believer that attitudes positive and negative are contagious. In the Army we have a cliche people like to say: "Motivate me to motivate you!" I also think everybody has a want to be open and uninhibited with each other because only in that can we be unafraid and Jesus certainly wasn't just talking for His health when He said "The truth will set you free." What you see a lot of in any social interaction and especially in the dating world is people playing games and manipulating because they are uncertain or afraid to be themselves because of pride. They want people to love and understand them, but they can't get it because they don't know how or don't want to love and understand others. People with magnetic personalities are people that can be there for others and not be a liability. Sometimes people have a hard time opening up when they are waiting for some one else to make the first move. Which means they lack trust in others due to having no trust in themselves to make themselves happy or that they can adjust when things change. It all comes down to honesty I think. Deep down we all know what the truth is and what the right thing to do is. Depending on how honest and upfront we are with ourselves determines just exactly how deep down our perception of what we know is right and true. Faith w/o works is dead and I think that equates to knowing what is right and choosing to do it. What we all want to see from some one is that we can trust and love them, but who will be the one to actually be the first to SHOW that they are capable of deserving theirs time and time again? And why do people act so surprised and even resentful that this must be done? I don't really have a point that ties this all together or anything, mostly just free-styling, but still wanted to share those thoughts. Post Reply
View Profile History	Synergy and Relating and Leadership Posted : 5 Sep, 2010 11:13 PM I guess it comes from being aware recently of how people want to keep to themselves, hold back, just show up, do the minimum of what's expected and then retreat. Then are resentful when they don't get any appreciation. Like Jesus said: Let go of your life and you will keep it. He who holds on to it will lose it. Care about other people, but don't care about what other people think about you. Like Coach Wooden said: Your character is more important than your reputation. Reputation is what other people think about you, but character is what you know about yourself. (paraphrasing) Post Reply
DontHitThatMark View Profile History	Synergy and Relating and Leadership Posted : 6 Sep, 2010 08:36 AM :rocknroll: :peace::peace: Post Reply