Author	Thread: Any idea why
cmseeker10 View Profile History	Any idea why Posted : 29 Aug, 2010 06:36 PM Hi to everyone first of all I want to introduce my self.My name is Liza Asian.I know this question is not new in dating sited but just want to ask it myself......Why do guys send you message telling you he wanna know about you,then when you reply ,they just disappear and never contact you again.It happened so many times and it so frustrating..I'm wondering what do they have in mind when they wrote that line "I llike your profile and I wanna know more about you please reply if you're intersted" Are they joking?............Can you explain why,I'm sure ther are guys here who has some idea.Sorry I removed my profile pics for this reason but will put it back soon. Post Reply
Rabbit32 View Profile History	Any idea why Posted : 29 Aug, 2010 08:18 PM Whats your typical reply? Could be posers. Post Reply
SilverFire View Profile History	Any idea why Posted : 29 Aug, 2010 08:37 PM 1) They didn't like your response. 2) They found someone more interesting. 3) They weren't serious. It's rough out there, but basically, if you see that someone has read your message and doesn't reply in a few days, you can assume one of the above. Really though, you shouldn't let it affect you -- and I suggest just not thinking about it at all. Put another way, do you mourn the fish that you never caught, or are you happy for those that you did catch? Post Reply
riveroflife1 View Profile History	Any idea why Posted : 29 Aug, 2010 08:57 PM Hi CM...that happens to me too but with winks and yeah it's annoying. It seems they send out these mass winks or intro messages and then never respond to your reply. Idont know if God is going to use this site to introduce me to my husband but I have met friends here that I will always be connected with and I really treasure that. You just never know who is on the other end of each message or wink. Could be a lifelong friend OR could be your husband OR could very well be some guy looking for a casual relationship. dont be discouraged is what I'm trying to say. and it happens to all of us, it's nothing your doing or it's not your profile. (FYI) bless you! Post Reply
cmseeker10 View Profile History	Any idea why Posted : 29 Aug, 2010 10:27 PM Thank you guys for your thoughts,@ rabbit what could be a good reply to such message?How or what would you as a guy would like us women to reply?I simply answer it this way,"thank you for reading my profile and I'm glad you liked it ,if you're interested to know more I'd be happy tell you whatever you wanna know about me.." Is there any other way to say it?@ silver,I guess you're right three ,two or one of what you listed might be the reason.Well it doesn't bother me at all but confuses me ..I lke the way you said it ..Why mourn the fish never caught..@ river thank you for sharing your idea.I'll keep that in mind..I like your user name We named the church we started in Korea ( River of Life Intl.Christian Church) .. Post Reply
hubbarddebra99 View Profile History	Any idea why Posted : 30 Aug, 2010 08:02 AM i totally agree!!!!!!! also i'm having so much more fun with the chat forum, the date site is how just "there"!!!! Debby Post Reply
Rabbit32 View Profile History	Any idea why Posted : 1 Sep, 2010 01:01 PM Sounds like you your good to go in that department. Post Reply
View Profile History	Any idea why Posted : 1 Sep, 2010 11:44 PM Well, what I'm noticing through my wink experiment (a few topics above yours) is that some guys don't actually read profiles before contacting a girl. Once the girl responds, then they read it and if they don't like what they see, they don't reply back, I guess... W/ a few of the guys I talked to today, I really had to coax them into talking to me, even though they're the ones who initiated contact. At any rate, if they don't consider you worth talking to, than they're obviously not worthy of you. Post Reply
cmseeker10 View Profile History	Any idea why Posted : 3 Sep, 2010 05:22 AM Thank you pixy..You are right..For now I'll just enjoy the furums where I can learn a lot of things..Keep posting and congratulations for your new found love... In Christ Love , Liza Post Reply