Author	Thread: Any insight?
Admin	Any insight? Posted : 28 Aug, 2010 09:14 PM Hey y'all. So I've been a part of this site for a while now, but I've noticed I get a ton of views, but no messages. That puzzles me. So I was actually wondering is there something about my profile that is a turn away? Any advice? Cause I really am a sweetie and if I'm not coming off as my true self then I'd like to be able to fix it :) Thanks for any thoughts! Post Reply
Rabbit32 View Profile History	Any insight? Posted : 28 Aug, 2010 10:01 PM It's hard to say why, but your profile looks fine to me :) Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	Any insight? Posted : 28 Aug, 2010 11:18 PM Are you getting views from your area, or just views in general? Maybe you're popping up at the top of the screen where they show random people all the time, and guys view you, but then realize you're further away than what they're looking for. Post Reply
View Profile History	Any insight? Posted : 29 Aug, 2010 08:23 AM Hmm you might be onto something tulip. There really arn't many guys in my part of Al and so most of the guys who view are from other southern states. Post Reply
DontHitThatMark View Profile History	Any insight? Posted : 29 Aug, 2010 12:46 PM I don't see anything wrong. You seem like a great person, you're a beauty/cutie, you're in a good profession...maybe guys are intimidated:laugh:. I do really think people get the dynamic of online dating a little backward sometimes. In real life, a guy doesn't usually advance on a young lady with out some kind of encouragement, i.e. body language, etc. Throw some winks around, I don't think it counts as "usurping man's authority/leadership" or anything. Just look for friends even. Guys might be a little passive nowadays, but I think girls get a little overly stuck in the passive rut too. :peace::peace: Post Reply
View Profile History	Any insight? Posted : 29 Aug, 2010 01:18 PM I've tried the whole send a wink send a message thing. I don't get responses. Lol that combined with a lot of views made me go um ok do I have horns I can't see? LOL! Post Reply
skinnywhiteboy View Profile History	Any insight? Posted : 30 Aug, 2010 05:58 AM When I go to pull up someone's profile, the age and location don't show till after I'm already in the profile, so I guess it counts as a view. It's hard to tell those things just from a picture Post Reply
View Profile History	Any insight? Posted : 4 Sep, 2010 07:47 PM If I may � Here are several of my observations: 1. It only takes a couple of times getting chewed up and spit out by someone you are showing a genuine, honest, Christian interest in, and you learn to be very careful about how you approach things. 2. Some people are so intent on finding a mate, that if you give them any encouragement at all, they misinterpret Christian courtesy for a love interest. Much of this is the reason you get chewed up and spit out for what someone else did to the person you are genuinely and sincerely wanting to get to know. 3. Inevitably even on Christian sites such as this one you will find a sundry assortment of deceivers and liars, both men and women. Many people are here, not to seriously find a love interest or mate, but to fill the empty spaces in their life, or to feed their egos � ie, �I have a 100 people who have me on their favorites list.� Many of these very same people have no real intent of wanting to find a mate. 4. Inaccurate, confusing, or deceptive profiles. Everyone here knows their limitations, or what they are looking for, especially when it comes to time and distance. When I read a woman�s profile that says they have no interest in relocating, I simply pass it by. As well, when I do send a letter out to a woman who say they would consider relocating and get a reply such as �Oh you are too far from me�, it really makes me not want to trust what people write. I know that what I have written here may be more than what you asked, I simply believe that honesty is the best policy. Post Reply