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what is do you really want???
Posted : 20 Aug, 2010 02:02 PM

Hi, I have been on this site for a while now and haven't gotten a chance. I've changed my profile three times already. I went to funny, to serious/romantic, and now to simple/ upfront. I don't get it. Nothing nada? What am I doing wrong I'm trying to be myself. What do guys really expect or want from a girl? I mean I'm trying not to sound desperate but man I'm getting older and still alone and it sucks big time. Please help me by giving me some insight on what a guy is looking for to find his right companion?





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P.S. I don't mind if you guys check out my profile to help me, but if do like what u see and read just send me a message.

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what is do you really want???
Posted : 20 Aug, 2010 04:02 PM

It took me about a year here to get women to write to me every day.I have 2 right now.



I am a little to old for you but your profile is ok.get active in the forums here.tha is how you get to know people.

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what is do you really want???
Posted : 20 Aug, 2010 07:16 PM

Thanks for your advice. I really appreciate it :)

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Posted : 20 Aug, 2010 08:12 PM

Yep, just stay active, there's so many fake or dead profiles on here that I'm sure people start skipping over stuff. It seems like the profiles that get attention are the ones that portray your personality instead of just the facts. When I was still looking I had a very simple and original profile and it seemed to get some attention, but I had the same problem everyone else has with people not returning my messages. Anyway, don't give up, just try to have patience.





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what is do you really want???
Posted : 20 Aug, 2010 09:20 PM

ThanKs a lot for understanding. :) I guess I'm not the only one here experiencing this....

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Posted : 20 Aug, 2010 10:22 PM

I'd suggest being more optimistic. Reading your profile I get the sense you're afraid to see or show that and comes off as insecure or playing it safe. Maybe other potential guys see that too, and that could be a detraction. Not trying to put you on the spot or anything just trying to help. Good hunting :)

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Posted : 21 Aug, 2010 08:19 AM

Thanks for the advice. I read my profile and you got a point there. I really appreciate your help :)

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Posted : 25 Aug, 2010 01:20 PM

i dont want to read what i want to hear. i want to read what u have to say. so dont worry about pleasing others. just be you. and dont forget God has the man for you already so stop worrying about anyone hitting you up or not. HE WILL COME!! THATS HIS PROMISE DONT FORGET.. BLESS CORAZON

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Posted : 4 Sep, 2010 08:18 PM

I feel what most men want is what you are now doing ... That is to be truthful. Not the kind of truth that may embarsss you or expose yourself to danger, but the kind of truth that you have expressed. Most of we men have enough social skills to handle the truth, and those they don't need to get some!

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