Author	Thread: Be A Man
Admin	Be A Man Posted : 19 Aug, 2010 12:06 AM Be a man of action. Who cares what you feel. If anything a woman wouldn't reject you because you weren't confident, but because you weren't confident enough to take action. She knows it's not easy walking up to a perfect stranger and just saying 'hello' and trying to be genuine, but she will respect that you did whether you came off smooth or not and if you keep going and keep doing your best to be a man of action you still have her interest. You still have a shot. The only shot you don't have is the one you don't take. Real men are men of action and don't let anything keep us from going out there and doing it again, and again, and again regardless of the responses we do or don't get or how things make us feel. We do it because we are men. And that's what men do. What actions will you take to be the man you want to be? How much will you let setbacks and disappointments affect your actions? Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	Be A Man Posted : 19 Aug, 2010 07:18 AM Yes. I highly recommend "The Silence of Adam" to any man interested. However, I would argue that most women do not really understand approach anxiety. Post Reply
Rabbit32 View Profile History	Be A Man Posted : 19 Aug, 2010 07:39 PM I think they understand it all to well, thats why very few have the guts to aproach a man lol :nahnah: While we are on the subject I would urge you who call yourself a man of God to be a gentleman, to not set no evil or wiked thing before your eyes, to flee youthful lust. Be coutious, if a woman ignores you let it go. There is a saying that a woman should be so lost in God that a man would have to seek Him to find her. Unfortunatly there are not a lot of women there. Every woman wants a good man but not every woman deserves one (and visa versa), for a good man should have a good woman, no one is good, ecxept for Christ, and the more like Him you are the better. Continue seeking after God for it is it's own reward, be a lover of Christ. Be who you were meant to be in Him. :) Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	Be A Man Posted : 19 Aug, 2010 07:56 PM Amen Rabbit! Post Reply
View Profile History	Be A Man Posted : 20 Aug, 2010 01:19 AM I second that :applause: Post Reply
View Profile History	Be A Man Posted : 20 Aug, 2010 02:31 AM I think it's easy to fall into the rut of forgetting that before anything you are a man. Not what you do for work, or hobbies, or education, single or non-single, etc. And it is good to be reminded of this. So far we have that we are men of action, and men of God, what else should we be as men? It is good to consider what you want to be a man of, because it is something that you actually can and should take seriously and consider what it means to be that and apply it and WANT to. As we rise up to the challenge everything else we were previously worried about (single/non-single, respect, etc.) will get resolved. Post Reply
Dragunov View Profile History	Be A Man Posted : 21 Aug, 2010 12:12 AM I totally agree that men of God should always take the initiative. Women feel safe around men who stay active. They know the men will make the necessary decisions, react, protect etc. The presence of a woman is a kind of inspiration which the man turns into action. Post Reply
Rabbit32 View Profile History	Be A Man Posted : 23 Aug, 2010 09:06 PM Thats kind of my point we need to stop being inspired at least initially by women, and be inspired by God, for He our portion, our prize. Thats what being a Man of God is all about! Post Reply