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Posted : 15 Aug, 2010 08:58 PM

You get to talking to a woman and you think you're really getting to know each other and you think they like you but you're not sure. But then they just stop writing or if they do write they just give you a one liner or so? It's so annoying. I haven't been able to find anyone really interested in me who actually keeps carrying on a real conversation and really wants to get to know each other. Seems like some women on here just like being chased by tons of guys but they never really give you a real chance. I dunno, I dunno if there is anyone for me anymore. I guess I just gotta keep praying for God to send the right one into my life.

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Posted : 15 Aug, 2010 09:00 PM

I mean it's like some just love to lead me on. It's like they even laugh about it... I dunno... I know I can be sorta ready to jump into stuff sometimes but I'm working on it. But really it's like no one really wants to talk, feels like somekind of game...

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Posted : 15 Aug, 2010 09:57 PM

I have thought that when I first started on here. Eventually I just accepted that it can and does happen and that you should even be willing to let it happen. If there's nothing there, then there's nothing there. It takes 2 to tango and if the other person doesn't want to keep going just tango on.

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Posted : 15 Aug, 2010 09:59 PM

Also when I realized that there are other better things to do besides look for some one, and a relationship not working out is far from the end of the world.

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Posted : 15 Aug, 2010 10:04 PM

I know what you mean but it's still so annoying when someone does keep talking to you but doesn't really give you anything or when you think you've found someone you would like to get to know better and they simply just stop talking to you and you don't even know why.

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Posted : 16 Aug, 2010 11:57 AM

He made them male and he made them female.

Women get equally as frustrated with us when we are talking to them and we just stop.



We are different especially in the way we communicate, perhaps you could find a female friend who will critique you, cause there is nothing worse than something being unrefined and not knowing it. Not saying its the case, but its worth checking out...Gods best to ya bro. :)

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Posted : 16 Aug, 2010 01:16 PM

Hello sorry this happens to you but I can assure you it happens to the best of us. Yes it is frustrating, because you can get a good feeling as to how to reply. Sorry

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Posted : 16 Aug, 2010 01:59 PM

My best bet is that they don't really think you two are clicking, but they think it would be rude to stop messaging you, so they try to reply in a way that implies that you shouldn't keep messaging them. Is it immature? Sure. But at least you know what kind of trouble you're saving yourself from in the future by not getting into a relationship with a girl like that.

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Posted : 16 Aug, 2010 04:29 PM

I would say it sort of happens to me as well, but it is only with one girl that I'm trying to establish a friendship with. Friendship and fellowship are really the only reasons I'm on here right now. Even though it would be nice if she would say more in her responses, I'm just thankful that she is talking to me at all. Most girls I message don't even bother to respond even once, which is why I'm thankful when just one or two respond to anything at all.



If you want more thought-out responses, try asking deeper (but not too deep) questions that require longer answers. I'm not saying ask her for her life story or to give you too many personal details right away, but something that would require maybe a small paragraph. If that doesn't work, I don't know what to tell ya, because I'm not an expert on this at all, but just trying to help in any way I can.

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Posted : 16 Aug, 2010 05:59 PM

Women are very different than us, im not even sure the whole interenet thing is whats best.

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Posted : 16 Aug, 2010 06:16 PM

You're telling me... Especially when one says you're the only one she's talking to or interested in and then you find out she's talking to several other guys. I don't have a problem with committment but I need someone who's committed also or of course there is no relationship. It's so frustrating!!

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