Author	Thread: What Does This Mean?
Admin	What Does This Mean? Posted : 5 Aug, 2010 01:46 PM Last week I was talking to a guy I went to college with on facebook and it was a little weird because we hardly ever talked in college. He said that I looked "amazingly stunning" in one of my old profile pictures and asked if I ever had a date for any of the school formals. Then he asked if I would have said yes to him if he asked me to be his date and saying all the stuff we could have done together - walks to ConAgra and the Old Market, going to movies and ice cream, etc. He even asked if I liked him in college, and then asked if we could get together while I was in town. I have been in town for almost a week now, and it seems like he wants nothing to do with me now. I am just thoroughly confused by this person. A lot of my female friends say he likes me, but I am not so sure. What are the guys' opinions? Post Reply
Rabbit32 View Profile History	What Does This Mean? Posted : 5 Aug, 2010 04:36 PM Have you inquired why? It has often been my experience that some women will not ask questions of the man that is troubeling her but of her friends first. If you have not done so go to the scource, this way you narrow down possible reasons why. If so, please inform us of his reason/s for his week long silence. :) Than we will have more of the picture. Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	What Does This Mean? Posted : 5 Aug, 2010 05:30 PM It sounds like he likes you but is too passive to do anything about it. Post Reply
View Profile History	What Does This Mean? Posted : 6 Aug, 2010 09:49 AM If a tree falls in the woods... er, I mean If he's not showing that he likes you he either doesn't or doesn't know how to show it (which isn't a good sign). I'm leaning towards the latter. Keep the possibility open, maybe try and contact him, but don't put too much stock in it or at least don't do his job for him. And then move on from there. That's what I would do anyway. Post Reply
stormcountry33 View Profile History	What Does This Mean? Posted : 7 Aug, 2010 07:27 AM Katie, it sounds to me like he is very interested in you and mentioned all those things to see if maybe you would be interested in him as well. Perhaps he is unsure of himself and isn't sure after all your talks whether or not you are interested or if you were just "playing" along with his feelings. Not saying you were messing with his emontions but just that you were being friendly and therefore in his insecurity he is left not knowing or second guessing how you may truly feel towards him or the possibliity of the two of you developing a relationship. My advice to you is if you are interested in meeting up with him and maybe developing it into something more...contact him and ask him to do something while you're still in town. Life is to short to wait around on what may be a good thing. Just because he is the guy doesn't mean you have to pass him by because perhaps he is just being cautious to spare his feelings. Show him that he has nothign to worry about. I know its different times but remember that Adam didn't go find Eve...God prepared her for him and then presented her to Adam. Just a thought. Later!~ Post Reply
View Profile History	What Does This Mean? Posted : 7 Aug, 2010 08:21 AM It means you're amazingly stunning but if he's not talking to you and you want him to then try to get a hold of him. If he is still not talking to you he's probably missing out and not worth wasting your time anyway. Don't worry too much about it. Life is too short. Post Reply
View Profile History	What Does This Mean? Posted : 11 Aug, 2010 05:04 PM It seems like he is very comfortable talking with you online but when it could come to a face to face confontation he is a litte timid. Post Reply