Author	Thread: What should a christian girl do?
kaylaj View Profile History	What should a christian girl do? Posted : 5 Aug, 2010 12:36 AM I have been a member of this site for sometimes now and I often wonder what christian men are looking for . i was introduced to a secular dating site by a friend and being there for only a couple of weeks I had been inundated with mails (so far I have gotten over 174 mails from guys who wants to get to "know me better") but as a christian it is quite uncomfortable and scary as I do not want to get into a relationship with one that is unsaved. (unequally yoked) - but when one is being ignored by Christians on a christian dating site what should one do? I will not compromise my christian beliefs so I guess I will remain single...........? Post Reply
DontHitThatMark View Profile History	What should a christian girl do? Posted : 5 Aug, 2010 07:13 AM Don't compromise your beliefs. Have faith/trust/patience with God and He will direct your life. The problems come when we think we are wiser than God. Some people have no faith in God at all. "I know what I need, give it to me right now or I'll get it myself!" Maybe this is to build your faith. Maybe it's a test to see if you will follow God or your desires. Keep fighting the good fight! Psalms 37 3 Trust in the LORD, and do good; Dwell in the land, and feed on His faithfulness. 4 Delight yourself also in the LORD, And He shall give you the desires of your heart. 5 Commit your way to the LORD, Trust also in Him, And He shall bring it to pass. 6 He shall bring forth your righteousness as the light, And your justice as the noonday. 7 Rest in the LORD, and wait patiently for Him; Do not fret because of him who prospers in his way, Because of the man who brings wicked schemes to pass. 8 Cease from anger, and forsake wrath; Do not fret�it only causes harm. Proverbs 3 5 Trust in the LORD with all your heart; and lean not to your own understanding. 6 In all your ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct your paths. :peace::peace: Post Reply
View Profile History	What should a christian girl do? Posted : 5 Aug, 2010 08:02 AM Who said that all guys on a secular dating site aren't saved? Not everyone here on CDFF is saved either! I think it is possible to fish out a nice christian guy somewhere else, too - more effort might be required though. I will not tell you what men want - I'm asking myself the same question. All I can say is do not give up searching and do not compromise your beliefs! God bless Post Reply
Rabbit32 View Profile History	What should a christian girl do? Posted : 5 Aug, 2010 08:09 AM Think what Christian folk are looking for is so rare that God Himself will have to engineer the meeting. I think it's so rare that most Christians dont measure up because they havent given God the blank check that says I'm all in. When you do that God starts to take invetory with you, and a person starts to deal with the ugly in self. Post Reply
View Profile History	What should a christian girl do? Posted : 5 Aug, 2010 12:44 PM Oh my, what a great topic! Patience and persistence in maintaining your vision. Shift neither to the left or to the right from that which you truly, truly desire. And though it may be uncomfortable (and maybe even lonely at times), I believe that we are the better for waiting and patiently responding to God's hand and His timing. A challenge at times, but worth it... The best to you! :) Post Reply
eliazew View Profile History	What should a christian girl do? Posted : 6 Aug, 2010 03:11 AM The lord has created soul mates for each & every one of us. He will not let us wander in vain & not let us meet our counter part so just be patient & enjoy life with good friends & family. Don�t let other people (guy) dictate what you believe in you heart. God bless Post Reply
Rabbit32 View Profile History	What should a christian girl do? Posted : 6 Aug, 2010 10:36 AM @ eliazew With much respect and love I disagree with you about God making soul mates. If you have biblical evedince which directly supports your statement, please share. In my mind when a person says soulmate they mean one and only one person meant for me. :) Post Reply
View Profile History	What should a christian girl do? Posted : 7 Aug, 2010 05:31 PM Get off the site and let God hook you up? Post Reply
View Profile History	What should a christian girl do? Posted : 8 Aug, 2010 01:22 PM You need to stay straight with the LORD. Do not sway like what others said to you. They are correct. Do not forget there are so many scammers. Do not trust them. If you know what scammers write, then debunk them by eliminate their emails. 174? Wow, I never get this many at all. Never will. There are a very few true Christians on other websites. Heard of the needle in the haystack? Do find that needle. But with prayers and fasting will do wonder. I did that method and guess what? I get answers from God to not to date this or that woman. Really! Ask God for each answer for each person. It will take time. But you have to have patience and go for it. Then You can know which gentleman God wants you to have. The prayer and fasting works just like that servant was send to find the right woman for his owner's son. Please read Genesis chap 24. The entire chapter and you will know. This is very important to understand how you find your mate. The servant asked God to give him clues. That is how I know my clues are! God gave me my clues and I have not yet found her. I am 45 now. After 25 years. God still promise me. Post Reply
View Profile History	What should a christian girl do? Posted : 9 Aug, 2010 02:47 PM So true. But it's hard to be patient with God for that part. Post Reply
View Profile History	What should a christian girl do? Posted : 15 Aug, 2010 03:36 PM Hey kaylaj, don't know if you'll read this but here goes. Due to the prompting of a friend I too recently joined a secular dating site. (One advertised here) That was 48 hours ago and I have already received more that 10 winks and several emails. Since spending time here I have reached the conclusion that very few are truly interested in finding a mate. Usually there are so many obstacles placed in the way that the mountain becomes insurmountable. You should really be aware that there are scammers and liars on this site just like anywhere else. They just focus their language to fit in. I met one guy here who really could not see why I had a problem with living together before making a marriage commitment. Another is in Africa and desperately needs me to send him money or he may go to jail. You should use all avenues available to you and use the God given disernment you have been blessed with. You should use the same criteria whether you meet them here or on a secular site. Remember not all Christian know about this site so it is quite possible that you could meet on another site. This is all food for thought and said in love. Dani Post Reply