Author	Thread: what are the men on this site looking for
Admin	what are the men on this site looking for Posted : 19 Jul, 2010 09:23 PM I am a good chrstian woman--caring and giving and a good sense of humor--i have tried this site 3 times and have not gotten a bite from a christian man--i can get offers from unsaved men all the time just not sure what a christian man is looking for if not for a christian woman. Post Reply
View Profile History	what are the men on this site looking for Posted : 20 Jul, 2010 04:53 AM Love fun and happiness. Nothing more. Post Reply
DontHitThatMark View Profile History	what are the men on this site looking for Posted : 20 Jul, 2010 08:54 AM Love, like-mindedness, and trust. :peace::peace: Post Reply
View Profile History	what are the men on this site looking for Posted : 20 Jul, 2010 02:15 PM I would only get serious with a woman that thought was a match who lives with n 200 miles. Post Reply
View Profile History	what are the men on this site looking for Posted : 20 Jul, 2010 03:48 PM Friendship, fellowship, christian pen-pals, world domination (jk on the last one). Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	what are the men on this site looking for Posted : 29 Jul, 2010 10:32 AM Well, once we get "Christian" and "female" out of the way, it's varies based a lot on the guy. The woman who is going to sign up for corporate life is very different from the woman who's going to sign up for inner city missions, so as men, what we're looking for changes accordingly. All you can really do is trust the Lord to provide. Post Reply
Rabbit32 View Profile History	what are the men on this site looking for Posted : 29 Jul, 2010 10:03 PM A woman with a submitted heart to her Lord. A woman like Abigale who was beautiful and sencible. Post Reply
View Profile History	what are the men on this site looking for Posted : 3 Aug, 2010 10:05 AM Amen. ;) As a thought, as I have contended with something very similar, we sometimes to wait for God's timing. We ache, long, desire, want and even need someone and have our timetable. If we claim to love and trust Him, then we have to bear in my that His time should take precedence, as He desires to give us the desires of our hearts, we can trust that He gives good gifts. just not always when we think it should happen... :yay: Post Reply
View Profile History	what are the men on this site looking for Posted : 3 Aug, 2010 10:25 PM I love this reply because it is so true that just as people vary from corporate culture to inner-city missions, so do people vary in what they want from a partner. Women will often choose according to their financial needs and men will often choose according to the appearance of the woman. We can call this discrimination or simply "life". Post Reply
View Profile History	what are the men on this site looking for Posted : 23 Aug, 2010 02:09 PM I guess I'll be the honest one. Probably not the politically correct answer but then again, I am not PC. What is wrong with being physically attracted to a woman? That is how God made man. Men are visual and beauty is important. Of course if she is a non-believer or just not a good Christian, the beauty does not matter. So, I am initially attracted by looks but then have to get to know her heart and soul. I am not talking about a beauty pageant beauty either. I mean a beauty that I am attracted to. I look for her devotion to the Lord and that God is more important to her than me. It is very difficult to get to know a woman that you are not attracted to and if anyone thinks that is shallow, you are not being honest. Women also want a man they are attracted to but for somewhat different reasons. They always want to know there are loved and cherished after God. Like Christ loved the church. Call me shallow but talk to God because this is how he made men. Eve was born in the Garden. Adam was born in the wild. And Eve was beautiful and attractive to Adam. Why else was he tempted to eat the fruit that Eve gave to him. Post Reply