Author	Thread: What women want
Admin	What women want Posted : 23 Jun, 2010 12:09 PM after realizing that some guys a painfully out of tune in this area, i decided to post what i would like and am inviting the ladies to post as well. n.b guys if you don't understand what she wants, or can't manage it, she's probably not for you move on and save yourself the bitterness/resentment and frustration. if not, stay and learn the hard way:laugh: me: after the initial attraction has set in, i won't explain this aspect because with me either you are or are not attractive; can't tell you how to do it, if it happens i'm happy if not there's no way. the guys who keep my attention are the ones who know what they are about. their energy is not sucked up by something as unfruitful as trying to satisfy a woman's every want. i realize how this sounds, but if you are a christian and do not realize that a human cannot satisfy the gap in our hearts that is made for God then... never mind. i am about to say something that if you are not a careful reader, and do not allow the holy spirit to enlighten you upon reading would sound like a contradiction to the last thing i said. i would like a man who knows how to care for me. the difference between a man trying to satisfy my every want and one who cares for me is this; the first is juvenile and material, the latter manifests an intimate relationship with the creator. so in short, i want a man who loves God more than his own desires. even though he realizes that he has those desires and cannot help this fact, even though he may fall is not slave to them by resting them higher than he rests GOD. now, ladies, give these guys a peek into our world i'm sure their current interests and future spouses would greatly appreciate it! Post Reply
Brandy774 View Profile History	What women want Posted : 23 Jun, 2010 06:43 PM Hmm Ok I will bite the bullet on this one... There has to be chemistry...no chemistry the man could be Mr Universe and I would still yawn. As to what I need in a man... 1. He has to know himself. What this means is he knows God and he is strong in his faith. The man knows where he's been, where he is, and where he is going. Have goals and follow thru. 2. Strong willed and opinionated. I know this sounds exactly what most women don't want. However I have a child to raise I don't want to raise my partner too. I am a very strong willed woman and yes I am opinionated. There are few questions people can ask me that I don't have a view point on. Thus I need the same in a man. Someone who is willing to change everything about himself for me...just wont work. 3. Intelligent and common sense wise. Book smart and street dumb may be cute but makes for boring conversations. 4. Family oriented. To me nothing is sexier than a man who stands by his family without giving up his individuality. Love your mother and father but don't have them pick out your next wife. The other stuff...funny, faithful, honest, and well those are characteristics that should be a part of the above package. Wow I'm long winded. Y'all wake up now! Post Reply
vkjewell View Profile History	What women want Posted : 24 Jun, 2010 11:00 AM Good to be back from an extended tour of Texas. This subject has come up here and there in my small groups; and the one thing that seems to be in short supply where I live is spiritual maturity (in my age group I guess). Experience has taught me that no matter how "compatible" everything else is, unless you can trust the man you love to be the spiritual leader in the home you hope to build together, eventually it all falls apart. Probably because men can tell when a woman has lost respect, and this is the foundation of respect for a Christian woman. The forums is one way you can learn about a potential mate's true spiritual maturity; so that's why I stay tuned it. Wish more guys in my age group, especially those who have expressed interest, were participating! This is where the masks come off ~ for both sides. Thanks to those of you who stick your hearts out there and lay your cards on the table each week. You're already braver in my book!:rocknroll: Post Reply
View Profile History	What women want Posted : 25 Jun, 2010 11:05 PM I really like what Brandy wrote. I could agree with each point, AND the reason for each as well. Book smart & street dumb = boring conversations: love it! You DO NOT have to turn off your mind when you accept Jesus as your Saviour!!! If you have, please look at Ravi Zacharias' webpage. His motto: Let My People THINK! says it all. Don't even THINK about using me to work out your problems with your mother. Been there; done that; ain't gonna again! As I think of more I will post it. Post Reply
shepherdingking View Profile History	What women want Posted : 28 Jun, 2010 05:16 PM The bible says husbands should live with their wife in an understanding way. But that does not necessarily mean he is able to understand her. I wonder about this topic. Is this "Ask a guy" what a woman wants? I think I know what they don't want. Women do not like presumptuous overly familiar male (sexy) conversation but instead seek (feelings) emotional fellowship. And guys that try too hard seem to be all "Woody Allen neurotic. A guy should not hate his mother. A wife replaces a mother in some ways. Gen.26:67, "And Isaac brought her into his mother Sarah's tent, and took Rebekah, and she became his wife; and he loved her: and Isaac was comforted after his mother's death." :waving: Post Reply