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Posted : 11 Jun, 2010 05:04 PM

Does allowing a guy to kiss you on the first date give the impression that you're easy to get? Would men prefer a girl to not let him kiss her on the first date so that they have something to chase after?

I've heard different opinions. Some guys say that if a girl doesn't want to have him kiss her on the first date then they get the impression that she's not attracted to him, only likes him as a friend. But I've heard others say that they like to have the girl give them a challenge. They like a girl who plays a little hard to get. What is your opinion?

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Posted : 12 Jun, 2010 12:56 AM

Before I answer your question, I'd like to state something first. "Before marriage, minimize intimacy. After marriage, maximize it".



I think you understand what I'm going to say now. If the guy expects a kiss, then we can know where that can lead to. Kissing is not a sin, but not kissing on the first date doesn't mean that you are weak, it just means that you are a woman who would like to stand up for her beliefs and that if the man is truly a godly man, he should honor that. Personally, I wouldn't want to kiss or at least would not do a liplock because I know what kind of triggers run in me when that happens.

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Posted : 12 Jun, 2010 08:40 AM

Thanks for your reply! I like your saying- good to keep in mind.

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Posted : 12 Jun, 2010 10:23 PM

It's not a question of attraction or of challenge.



It's a question of Moral Integrity...of Discipline...of Personal value and Self-Worth.



A Kiss is an Intimate thing. It can have different meanings and value. Between a man and a woman that could become Lovers...it has Great Value and Meaning. If all I have to do to get a Kiss from you is buy you a $10.00 buffet at The China Walk restaurant then that kiss is worth $10.00.



Impressions are very important parts of our lives. What kind of Impression we make on others is what others �see� us as being. A woman that allows a stranger to kiss her after a $10.00 buffet is �seen� as cheap and easy (and that man is seen as undisciplined and with no scruples).



You are a valuable creation. A kiss from you is very Valuable and should be given with much thought and consideration. To me a Kiss from the Woman I Love is Priceless! That is why God put so many receptors of sensation in the lips! Only your fingertips have more sense (feelings) receptors than your lips.



So...save your Kiss until you know he is deservable of that Gift and you will know that you are with the right man if he does not �push� you and waits patiently. Anyway, anticipation is so wonderful once it is Fulfilled.



Peace



Steve



God proves good to the man who passionately waits, to the woman who diligently seeks.

It's a good thing to quietly Hope, quietly Hope for help from God.

Lamentations 3: 25-26

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Posted : 14 Jun, 2010 10:17 PM

I would probably only on an absolutely amazing date, give a quick peck on the cheek for the first date-as I'm dropping you off or going to our separate cars.



I'd be just as happy though with light touching during the date though:

Hands on mine while talking, touching my shoulder if we're walking, holding arm/hand....things like these are generally where I stick to for intimacy for first date through probably the third or fourth date.

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Posted : 21 Jul, 2010 06:31 AM

In my church prefer not to kiss before mariagge... First kiss on wedding.. Of course, there some couples who did it before wedding... But as for me... i wont to keep this standart...

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