Author	Thread: Am I doing something wrong?
Admin	Am I doing something wrong? Posted : 3 May, 2010 07:15 PM I have been on here for about two months now and tons of guys look at my profile, but none of them ever send me a message or wink...any advice? Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	Am I doing something wrong? Posted : 3 May, 2010 08:59 PM Try being closer to the guys who look at your profile. Other than that, don't worry too much. I know this is a Christian dating site, but there are so few people that you shouldn't really focus too much on that. Post Reply
springrose10 View Profile History	Am I doing something wrong? Posted : 3 May, 2010 09:13 PM Hi Revolve, I really hate answering these kinds of questions publicly, but again, age restrictions keep me from sending you a message. For the most part, I think that you have done a good job of describing your life, values, and what you're looking for. The first thing that caught my attention was that you said you are 19 and then, I saw photos of 3 different children. Are those the kids you nanny or your own kids? You might want to explain those photos in your profile. The other thing was, "- enjoy helping others when needed, even if it means no alone time for us that day/night." I'm hoping that you get some male feedback on that request. My husband and I did a lot of volunteer work, but we really protected our time together. My experience has been that most Christian guys want to be the priority of their mate's life, second only to God. Obviously, not everyone is alike, so.... Welcome, Rose Post Reply
John_O View Profile History	Am I doing something wrong? Posted : 4 May, 2010 06:58 PM Could be just location. If there say 5 states away, kinda far lol. As for.." winks", I won't send one. Maybe just me but it just don't seem like a Christian thing to do! Now if they had a wave instead of a wink, thats another story. John Post Reply
XtremeChef777 View Profile History	Am I doing something wrong? Posted : 4 May, 2010 11:24 PM To add a few points to this. I think some major deal breakers could be : Location? How close do you live from that person? Beliefs? Are you same or similar beliefs? Do you have kids? Some people may want kids and some may NOT want kids so if you have kids that would be a major factor of as to why no response. Interests? Do you have alot of things in common with that person? Beauty is in the eye of the beholder as I was told meaning to some you are average, cute, beautiful or to some you are not Age? How far in age gap are you with that person? Character compatibilities?? Do they match? or close? Those are some things I think would be important decision factors. If you don't fit that to a guy of what he's looking for he may decide it's not worth the time or dont wanna lead you on. I'm a very frugal person with my time and money and know what I am looking for. Just saying from my point of view, but I think some guys would think you are a wonderful woman. Those are my thoughts God bless! Hope they helped you. Post Reply
View Profile History	Am I doing something wrong? Posted : 6 May, 2010 04:45 PM I have been on dating sites off and on for a few years and am still looking and still praying and still hopeful that I will meet the man has been molding for me. Gotta say though, a lot of these sites have a lot of look but not a lot of take action kind of men. Winks are of no use because they require no effort. A well written note that touches on a few of the interests you have in your profile however, hints at a man with self confidence and the desire to begin the process of getting to know you. My view on flirting is; it is reserved for a relationship because that is where it can be engaging and fun. I don't wink at strangers on the street - why should here be different? Hope this helps. Keep the faith and keep up the search. God is faithful. Love in Christ, Dani Post Reply