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PEM4 View Profile History	Age attracting .... Posted : 1 May, 2010 06:17 AM I as 42 yr not a teenager or the elderly... Why am I attracting the extremes in ages younger or older? When kids 19 years old, (my songs age 18, 20 ) make a pass at me, I feel sick... that is cradle-roll snatching... When a 25 year old followed me around in Burlington Coat Factory and expressed his attraction.. I am begin to think there is something wrong with me... And what is it with men that are the same same age as my dad 69yrs pursing me... When a 68 year man told me off because I told him we are not compatible(I did not told him his age was the issue, but finally had to say that was the reason). A 73 year telling me he is interested in me makes me what to run away and hide.. Tell me why or what is causing these age group to be attracted to me? Why are men my age group so scarce? Post Reply
stormcountry33 View Profile History	Age attracting .... Posted : 1 May, 2010 09:24 AM I have theory and it could be WAY off base!! I'm going to assume that you have strong personality. Now assuming that...it could be that men your age feel intimidated by being with someone that they think of as being "stronger" than they are, however, the younger generation she's it as a turn on becuase they wouldn't have to "provide" for you. Truth is they probably aren't really thinking about a relationship. The older men, see your personality as a turn on becuase they don't want to have to worry about providing for you either, yet in a different manner than the younger generation. By that I mean that they would have strong woman that could provide and take care of herself and while they would probably take of you as well, they wouldn't feel the pressure of having to "babysit" you as they would with a younger woman or nurse an older woman that may be facing health issues the same time the he is. I have no understanding why people would "stalk" you and express their attraction to you out of the blue other than immaturity. Well this was just a theory. Post Reply
John_O View Profile History	Age attracting .... Posted : 1 May, 2010 05:51 PM 1:"Tell me why or what is causing these age group to be attracted to me?" 2: "Why are men my age group so scarce? " ----------------------------------------------------------- 1: Younger guys think of you as attractive and muture? The older guys think of you as attractive and younger ? 2: A lot of the 40 somethings are married. Post Reply
PEM4 View Profile History	Age attracting .... Posted : 1 May, 2010 07:22 PM Part of your theory does applies- in that I am very independent, had my children already and don't really want to have more and I am not looking for a guy to take care of me (materialistic approach) but instead I am only looking for a sincere partner to spend the rest of my life with. Some of the guys my age that I met want to have a child but I do not, so that might be eliminating a few from day one. I am usually pretty blunt about that subject.. I still have a Jamaican accent when I speak along with my easy going -no problem personality, so might be attracting people too. Thanks for the response Post Reply
PEM4 View Profile History	Age attracting .... Posted : 1 May, 2010 07:27 PM Nice response.. seems rather logical Thanks Post Reply
lovejoypeace777 View Profile History	Age attracting .... Posted : 4 May, 2010 08:52 PM Hey, if you are beautiful you're beautiful. The young and the old can notice beauty. :) Post Reply
PEM4 View Profile History	Age attracting .... Posted : 5 May, 2010 12:06 PM Hello lovejoypeace777, I hear you.. Sometimes even the logical does not make sense... I guess things will be resolve eventually. Post Reply