Author	Thread: What are "guy" rules for after a date?
Hiker4Christ View Profile History	What are "guy" rules for after a date? Posted : 26 Apr, 2010 07:09 PM Hi...I'm so curious to hear what you guys think! After a date do you Christian guys have any set ways to proceed? Should a gal call, text, or e-mail her "thanks for the coffee" appreciation? Does it matter to you? Should first-time daters wait a day, 2 or 3 ddays before calling to say "Hi" or "I enjoyed our date?" If a gal says "thanks" and never hears back from her "Christian" date, should she feel dissed/rejected? Is that cool for a "Christian" to never even say "Hi" after a date or is it very accepted now in secular and Christian circles to be uncommunicative? BEST QUESTION - What is it that you wish we females could understand about males? Post Reply
View Profile History	What are "guy" rules for after a date? Posted : 26 Apr, 2010 09:38 PM I like a thank you when we end the date. If she wants to email or text a thank you that's cool too. I usually do the same. If there is any mutual interest I will tell her I want to see her again and in a few days I'll call her. I think that the protocol usually depends on how the first date goes and what kind of connection is made. Thunder Post Reply
View Profile History	What are "guy" rules for after a date? Posted : 26 Apr, 2010 09:50 PM I'm with the "Thunder' Man. If I am interested, I'll let that be known right away. Most probably I would see about setting up a second meet before we parted ways (assuming of course she feels the same way). I don't see the point of playing games (not wanting to seem "too eager") and I would certainly let my feelings be known and clear. I would also do what I said and say what I mean. This is not causal dating for me. It is a sincere effort to find that one woman that I want to be with the rest of my life. "Pretty Serious Stuff...heh?" Steve God proves good to the man who passionately waits, to the woman who diligently seeks. It's a good thing to quietly Hope, quietly Hope for help from God. Lamentations 3: 25-26 Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	What are "guy" rules for after a date? Posted : 27 Apr, 2010 12:17 AM Generally, it I click with a girl, I will continue to see her. If I do not click with her, I will not. If I'm not sure I want to be in a relationship with a girl yet, I will only see her once or twice a week so I don't lead her on. As for phone calls, they are only for setting up the next face-to-face meeting. The only girl I ever call just because is my friend Carrie, who is pretty much like my sister. Even then, it's usually only because I want to tell her something that is too long to text. I could probably add a lot more, but as late as it is, I can't trust myself to make what's in my head come out my fingers reliably. Post Reply
DontHitThatMark View Profile History	What are "guy" rules for after a date? Posted : 27 Apr, 2010 06:08 AM Yea, seems like we'd decide at the end of the first date if we wanted to do it again. :peace::peace: Post Reply
View Profile History	What are "guy" rules for after a date? Posted : 27 Apr, 2010 10:22 AM there really are no rules, at least that i am aware of. it's different everytime. sorry. Post Reply
servant386 View Profile History	What are "guy" rules for after a date? Posted : 7 Apr, 2012 02:23 PM ummmmmmm , take her to the psychiatrist because she would have to be crazy to go out with most of us here:ROFL: Post Reply
thenatural View Profile History	What are "guy" rules for after a date? Posted : 22 Apr, 2012 03:52 PM I'm pretty old-fashioned. So, after a first date, if a guy likes a gal, he should call her (not e-mail, text, IM, send a smoke signal, or other) by the next day to thank her and tell her that he had a good time. Post Reply