Author	Thread: Speed of Light
Elisa View Profile History	Speed of Light Posted : 11 Apr, 2010 04:09 PM Some insight would be greatly appreciated. Guys from here initiate contact and within a week are talking moving and marriage. I am still simply getting to know the person and am deciding if I like him. On the whole, I am rather discombobulated by the sheer speed the guy moves. One time, I figured it was an anomaly. But this is now multiple times. What is going on? Blessings, Elisa Post Reply
View Profile History	Speed of Light Posted : 11 Apr, 2010 04:22 PM It is possible they are scammers. Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	Speed of Light Posted : 11 Apr, 2010 04:32 PM They're either scammers or just desperate to marry a warm body. Post Reply
Rabbit32 View Profile History	Speed of Light Posted : 11 Apr, 2010 04:55 PM Either way, hold on. There are good ones out there. :) Post Reply
Elisa View Profile History	Speed of Light Posted : 11 Apr, 2010 07:00 PM Thank you for the responses. I had not considered scammers. As for a warm body, lololol, there go my illusions. But on the positive side, forewarned is forearmed. Thanks again, Elisa Post Reply
View Profile History	Speed of Light Posted : 12 Apr, 2010 02:04 AM Another possibilty is... ...that they are so love starved that they leap at the slightest hint of affection and a relationship. I would not dismiss them off hand. Try to get them to "cool their jets" and slow the pace down. I think that you will find both men and women that are in the same frame of mind and heart. We sometimes tend to project our desires onto the person we seek and sometimes we "see" not what is there...but rather what We "Want" to see there. Post Reply
View Profile History	Speed of Light Posted : 12 Apr, 2010 08:34 PM archimedes, very true. rachel Post Reply
mightbeblasphemy View Profile History	Speed of Light Posted : 13 Apr, 2010 04:53 PM and when can i move in? Post Reply
View Profile History	Speed of Light Posted : 13 Apr, 2010 06:37 PM Elisa, the same thing has happened to me multiple times. So far, when I have insisted the guy slow down --- he never contacts me again. No loss! God is protecting me, and I thank Him for it. Post Reply
funky View Profile History	Speed of Light Posted : 14 Apr, 2010 08:16 PM too true Arche Post Reply