Author	Thread: Frustrations with women
Tulip89 View Profile History	Frustrations with women Posted : 10 Apr, 2010 04:41 PM I asked a similar question to the ladies, but I figured I'd ask you guys too. What are some of your biggest frustrations with Christian women when it comes to dating? Post Reply
View Profile History	Frustrations with women Posted : 10 Apr, 2010 05:26 PM Hello tulip89 One of my biggest frustrations with some christian women is the name it claim it theology of today.God did not promise us perfect wonderful lives,our inheritance and hope is in eternity,not that we cant have some happiness here,but if we make that our main goal then I think we miss the point. In Christ steven Post Reply
InHisHonor View Profile History	Frustrations with women Posted : 10 Apr, 2010 08:11 PM Shopping. If you want to take your guy shopping don't spend and hour comparing a couple pair of shoes. Most men know what they want before they go into the store, they grab the item, then leave. No we don't expect the same thing from you but PLEASE have some compassion for us :ROFL: We don't like to go shopping. Then why do we agree to go with you? Because we want to spend time with you. PLEASE don't torture us :bow: Post Reply
Rabbit32 View Profile History	Frustrations with women Posted : 11 Apr, 2010 11:07 AM My biggest frustartion is in relation to the onset of warmer weather. It seems that the warmer it is the less clothes women wear, even women who claim the name of Christ. We men are natuarlly attarated to a womans body, so it makes it extremly difficult to want to be Godly when there is so much visual stimuli. Therefore a Godly man must flee such temptation, and if you happen to be a woman who lacks discresion, or modesty, Godly men who agape Jesus will run from you, and what men will be left for you? We know you are beautiful, so I beg you :prayingm: in the name of Jesus, and for love of your brother please conceal your flesh, that will help us (all men) keep their eyes on Christ :) Post Reply
View Profile History	Frustrations with women Posted : 11 Apr, 2010 01:18 PM Their excuses. And then expect everything to be alright and move on without caring about what you think or feel and then they act all surprised when things aren't ok. If you do something wrong just be upfront and honost and quit making excuses. Being a girl doesn't give you carte blanche. Post Reply
View Profile History	Frustrations with women Posted : 11 Apr, 2010 01:20 PM Oh yeah and how they expect you to have an endless supply of optimism, energy, attention, and understanding to direct at them at any given moment. Post Reply
Rabbit32 View Profile History	Frustrations with women Posted : 11 Apr, 2010 03:11 PM Here are a few I thought of just for here: Some of the womens' age limits are narrow. My advise open it up you never know what age you will find a good man. Some of the search criteria is vague, and restrictive for example smoking. Everyone has their flaws but there are worse ones out there besides smoking like pride, insecurity, gosiping, haughtness to name a few. Im trying to quite give me some grace. A simple hi how are you wont due, it seems like you have to have this extravegant and clever opening letter to get a woman to respond. A man wont be like that through out the relationship so if a man says hi how are you say hi back, you dont know what you will find diversify. Haveing your emails ignored; ladies thats just rude, if they dont meet some criteria, it might help to know what it is, besides if it is a flaw in something I am doing I would like to know so I can fix it. Otherwise it would be like having a goober on my face and not knowing. ok rant off: :) Post Reply
View Profile History	Frustrations with women Posted : 11 Apr, 2010 05:04 PM I am looking for a commited woman.A lady who stands by her man.Dennis Post Reply
View Profile History	Frustrations with women Posted : 11 Apr, 2010 07:02 PM I get irritated with the "leadership" thing. Most of the Christian women I meet say they want a leader but when they get one that actually knows his way around the Word and is willing to lead they run the other direction. I think it's because they can't keep up with the way I talk about the Bible and the things I believe that are not your run-of-the-mill mainstream Christian, Jesus junk. They also think I am too assertive and intimidating. Just sayin', ya know? The indomitable Thunder Post Reply
DontHitThatMark View Profile History	Frustrations with women Posted : 13 Apr, 2010 12:58 PM My biggest frustration is that most christian women...or at least most of the ones I know...seem to think they're better then everyone else. I'm kinda big on "humility"...and I'm hoping for someone that's the same way. A "holier than thou" attitude really turns me off...even if it's not directed at me. None of us are better or more perfect...in any way/shape/form...and we don't have any right to look down on other people very often. Anyway...I'm also not perfect, I'm sure I fall into a little prideful mindset every once in awhile too, and it's a little hypocritical to look down on someone for looking down on someone:goofball:...but...I'm not really looking down on them, I just wouldn't want to date them:laugh:. Anyway...just sayin'...try to be merciful and understanding to other people... :peace::peace: Post Reply
View Profile History	Frustrations with women Posted : 13 Apr, 2010 02:00 PM Thunder, could it be that the women have been single for a long time and getting under someone's leadership is a gradual process? I may fall into that category that your speaking of... I want leadership but on the same note, I have been a single parent for 8 years...without help (except from our Father of course). So I know how to make it happen and am very independant. I think the type of leader I would need would be the kind that leads without leading. someone I would want to follow in life and in ministry. This could be what is happening with the women you are meeting. Riveroflife Post Reply

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