Author	Thread: Should I leave or stay?
Reacy View Profile History	Should I leave or stay? Posted : 28 Mar, 2010 08:25 PM Hi to all, I have been on this site for a while and have gotten a few responses, but nothing substantial. I'm looking for a friend first and if anything more happens, I will go with the flow, if its in God's will. The problem that I have are that some of the men I come in contact with on here are looking to be more than friends first. I am a little skeptical of men who want to move fast without getting to know me, but I'm sort of on the fence of whether to leave this site alone or stay. Post Reply
View Profile History	Should I leave or stay? Posted : 29 Mar, 2010 06:39 AM Getting in the forums helps just to make friends.Some are here just for the forums while they are dating.Stick with your program you are just fine. Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	Should I leave or stay? Posted : 29 Mar, 2010 07:02 AM I honestly haven't had much luck on this site...but then again I'm looking for a long-term relationship that could likely lead to marriage, not a friend or date. I've had quite a few people say they want to be my friend, and while most of those "friendships" didn't go anywhere, I have made one good friend. A good way to make friends is to frequent the forums. You'll "meet" a lot of people that way. I actually joined another dating site, met a great guy, and left that other site...but I've stayed here (after severely editing my profile!) just for the forums. As for leaving or staying, that's up to you! Do you enjoy it here enough to spend time on the site? Do you find yourself checking the site just because you "should"? I'd weigh the pros and cons if I were you, then make a decision. Post Reply
Reacy View Profile History	Should I leave or stay? Posted : 29 Mar, 2010 08:44 AM Thanks for responding, I think I will take your advice and at least start to post and reply more to the forums, I might make a friend or two :) Post Reply
Reacy View Profile History	Should I leave or stay? Posted : 29 Mar, 2010 08:49 AM @bcpianogal, I do actually find myself checking this site pretty often, sometimes its just out of curiosity and other times I have hopes of developing a strong friendship with someone that will one day lead to marriage. Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	Should I leave or stay? Posted : 9 Apr, 2010 05:17 PM While you should be skeptical of a guy who wants to become boyfriend/girlfriend without meeting, don't write off someone who is already interested in you. You don't have to be best friends before you consider going on a date with a guy. Post Reply