Author	Thread: "She's Too Fat"
heismysong View Profile History	"She's Too Fat" Posted : 21 Mar, 2010 06:53 AM I'm sure the title is something of a giveaway. I've read and heard that the looks of a girl are very important to a guy. I've also read that different guys like different sizes of girls, including ones that have more "padding" on their bodies. So, which is it? Post Reply
View Profile History	"She's Too Fat" Posted : 21 Mar, 2010 06:58 AM :rolleyes:Which what are you refering to "it"? Are you saying that "is" is what? Or are you saying that "what" is it? Please explain? :rolleyes: Post Reply
View Profile History	"She's Too Fat" Posted : 21 Mar, 2010 07:30 AM right wrong or indifferent: the guy that cares about his body image will probably want somebody that cares about theirs the same way. Post Reply
View Profile History	"She's Too Fat" Posted : 21 Mar, 2010 08:05 AM and even then looks reflect mindset. some do it just to look good, others do it to be healthy, or they like to be active, or it makes them feel good, it indicates they have discipline, positive attitude, purpose, direction, and care. people should want to take care of themselves. it's really not as cathartic as just the end physical results. it's not about looking like tyra banks. it's about doing it because you love yourself enough to think you're worth it. if you have that mindset it doesn't matter what your body type is. by 'it' i mean eat healthy and exercise. like hygene, it's just being healthy and taking care of yourself. plus it gives you more things to have in common with other people. other things to be interested in, passionate about, study, and share with other like minded people working toward the same thing. Post Reply
SBC 2010 View Profile History	"She's Too Fat" Posted : 21 Mar, 2010 08:20 AM I agree with a lot of what Remp is saying but. Remp dont forget that some people are born with a slower metabolism, they can eat healthy , work out like crazy and still have a problem with their weight. While others eat like crazy and still dont gain weight with only light exercise. Post Reply
View Profile History	"She's Too Fat" Posted : 21 Mar, 2010 08:30 AM Because I am on meds for a condition it is harder fo me to lose weight.But I m working on it.Doctors orders, he wants me to drop about 25 pounds.maybe 30. Post Reply
View Profile History	"She's Too Fat" Posted : 21 Mar, 2010 11:01 AM dear remp,,,, remp your words it indicates they have discipline, positive attitude, purpose, direction, and care. people should want to take care of themselves. mine here if youre sayin that overweight folks dont have these same qualities ,, then i got to disagree. everyone can have discipline, and a positive attitude and purpose and direction and care and do wanna take care of theirselves.. and it dont mean they have to look a certain way to have all these qualities.. what youre really speaking of is you have a preference.. and its nothin wrong with you havin a preference but to lump all others who dont meet your preference as not having qualities such as you described is really unfair.. dont ya think? i mean really folks just cause someone doesnt look like you think they should ...does that really mean they are lacking good qualities, or make em any less a person than ourselves? naw ones preference doesnt make anyone else have less qualities.. ole cattle Post Reply
View Profile History	"She's Too Fat" Posted : 21 Mar, 2010 12:27 PM Well the key word in that sentence was INDICATES. I was just saying it's a good sign. I wasn't trying to be all nazi about appearances, but I also know it's easier to sit on the couch and just write everybody else off as shallow than it is to make it a priority and do something about it. All I was saying in there was try. Do your best with what you have. There's always something you can do. Again, you don't have to look like a supermodel, just be healthy. The only preference I have is a healthy, active mindset. Post Reply
View Profile History	"She's Too Fat" Posted : 21 Mar, 2010 12:30 PM cattle, your words: naw ones preference doesnt make anyone else have less qualities.. mine: that's true. Post Reply
View Profile History	"She's Too Fat" Posted : 21 Mar, 2010 08:55 PM Ok... ...I think I know what your question is. There was a time when the "ideal" woman was quite plump. Artists painted them and women wanted to be like them. Men sought them out. What has changed since those days? ***PERCEPTION*** The media...Hollywood...books and magazines...all of these and most importantly -- The Fashion Industry decide what is proper and pleasing. They decide what "you want". Soo...it is whatever "floats you boat" and yes...there are many different preferences among men (and women too). It is very important that women understand that their body is beautiful and truly a Temple...no matter what size or shape. Take care of it and walk Tall and Proud of it. To me Carriage and Style are very much an attraction and it does not matter what size or shape. Queen Latifa(spelling?) is one example of what I am saying. Post Reply
View Profile History	"She's Too Fat" Posted : 22 Mar, 2010 07:10 AM Every guy prefers something different. Since I'm an active guy, I'm attracted to women that don't weigh more than me. Post Reply

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