Author	Thread: to all the men...
miekachan View Profile History	to all the men... Posted : 19 Mar, 2010 11:52 PM hey guys...how many of you wouldn't care what a girl looked like, if u were to cultivate a realtionship with them?? just curious... Post Reply
View Profile History	to all the men... Posted : 20 Mar, 2010 09:55 AM well I have to have some physical attraction to the person obviously, but not expecting them to be perfection, cuz I know I'm not. Post Reply
View Profile History	to all the men... Posted : 20 Mar, 2010 10:13 AM sorry, but i'd care. Post Reply
View Profile History	to all the men... Posted : 21 Mar, 2010 01:27 PM dear meika, welcome to the forums.. as for me id wanna be attracted to her outer beauty and her inner beauty as well... just so she is beautiful in my eyes.. ole cattle Post Reply
View Profile History	to all the men... Posted : 21 Mar, 2010 08:42 PM I would be an hypocrite... ...if I said that I did not care. Yet, while it is the outward physical appearance that initially attracts me...it is the "person" inside (the spirit -- the Immortal Being that is Her) that I would eventually fall in Love with. Then, once in Love with her ...I would not care about how much she changed through time (I would always "see" her as the way she was when I first met her). Does that make sense? While I would most certainly care about her physical well being...it would not be of importance to me. To me ...her eyes and her smile are what I am moved by and her voice is what I focus on. These things do not change with time. Sidebar: I believe woman are the same way and I feel that they know that we men are that way...otherwise why do women make themselves up? Why do they go through all the trouble and expense and Pain...just to make themselves "Beautiful"? (not that I'm complaining). Post Reply
skinnywhiteboy View Profile History	to all the men... Posted : 26 Mar, 2010 10:40 AM personally, my attraction to someone gets stronger or diminishes as I get to know them better. So even if the attraction is not there in the beginning, it can "come up" later. And the opposite is true. I can be physically attracted to someone I don't even know, but sometimes once they start talking, well, the attraction goes away Post Reply