Author	Thread: Corresponding with men
Admin	Corresponding with men Posted : 15 Mar, 2010 03:01 PM I don't really know the best way to ask this. But here goes. Why do guys not answer the questions you ask in the email? I feel like I put a lot of effort in answering their questions. Also, does a lack of asking questions about you or your life, show they are not really interested? If so, then why do they keep writing? I'm just confused. Sorry for the multitude of questions :) Post Reply
View Profile History	Corresponding with men Posted : 17 Mar, 2010 01:56 AM WV...Hi Let me take a crack at this. From just reading your post I might have a reason why you are not getting any answer. To begin with I got a little confused as to what you were asking. Sometimes we know what or where we are going with a sentence that we are writing, but we omit certain important things ( not realizing because we already have them in our minds). This makes for an awkward sounding sentence. Try writing as if the person was in the room with you and also go back and read what you wrote. many times I will catch myself with things I have left out. I read your profile and I saw nothing there that would be any reason for what I think you are saying is happening to you. So...keep trying. I know one guy that always answers his email and every question in it. Heck...he'll even send flowers and a steak back with his reply!! That's OleCattle. Last I heard...he was also adding Blueberry Muffins with all of his replys. So God Bless you WV!! I Love your state! Steve Post Reply
View Profile History	Corresponding with men Posted : 17 Mar, 2010 02:00 AM WV, I read your post one more time. It seems that they are answering you, but you don't like what they are writing? Is that what I am hearing? I mean is it that you want them to ask you thinks about yourself, but they are asking or maybe even not asking but instead are just talking about themselves? Perhaps you could clarify? Thanks Steve Post Reply
View Profile History	Corresponding with men Posted : 17 Mar, 2010 09:42 AM dear arch ,, lol steak and muffins hehe thats rich .. hehe dear wv, since i have no clue as to the questions you were asking cant give you a definitive answer from my point of view.. though it sounds like when they ask you a question you go all out to answer their questions with completely and with lots of details.. now is that theyre not answerin you back in the same way or is it theyre just not answerin the question at all? some folks aint so comfortable at first to give out too much informations bout themselves .. could also be they are not as detail oriented as you.. could be they think its no ones business hehe could be they they are just sidesteppin the question cause they really dont wanna answer it.. and that could be for various reasons.. fraid they got summin to hide and dont wanna slip up is one possibility. its just hard to say without knowin the conversation.. hope that helps ya a little bit.. ole cattle Post Reply
View Profile History	Corresponding with men Posted : 17 Mar, 2010 10:38 AM Wv, Mr. Cattle and Arch are right, a lot of people--men and women--, are a little skiddish about giving out too much information, esp. until they get to know someone. I wouldn't take it personally. I doubt it's because they have anything to hide. Best of luck to you in here! Post Reply
View Profile History	Corresponding with men Posted : 17 Mar, 2010 11:31 AM Thank you Steve. I enjoyed your answer. Was your second post meant to be confusing to show me what you meant about my unclear posting? Anyway, i enjoyed it. Post Reply
View Profile History	Corresponding with men Posted : 17 Mar, 2010 11:35 AM I want to thank everybody for their replies. God Bless. Drema Post Reply
View Profile History	Corresponding with men Posted : 18 Mar, 2010 06:43 AM WV, See how confusing words can make a simple subject...well, confusing! You also have to remember that everyone isn't as polite as you'd like them to be. Peace Steve Post Reply
vkjewell View Profile History	Corresponding with men Posted : 22 Mar, 2010 07:57 PM WV ~ You're on to him! (Archi) See? Eventually you CAN figure out what they're tryin to say. You just gotta let them have their fun. Ol' Cattle, those blueberry muffins arrived a bit crumbly. But thanks for gettin' back to me so quickly! :glow: valinda Post Reply
View Profile History	Corresponding with men Posted : 23 Mar, 2010 02:28 AM dear vk, lol ,arch makin me spend some money hehe ole cattle Post Reply