Author	Thread: Winks
Admin	Winks Posted : 23 Feb, 2010 03:07 PM I'm new to all of this. When would you send a wink? How do you respond to a wink? Post Reply
View Profile History	Winks Posted : 23 Feb, 2010 04:01 PM I'm not a guy, lol. But when I receive winks, I always send a polite message saying, Hey thanks for the wink and Hope you are having a good day! Something like that. It's kind of a good ice breaker. :) But I don't usually send winks. So I can't really answer that part of it. Hope I helped somewhat! :) In Him, Beth Post Reply
View Profile History	Winks Posted : 23 Feb, 2010 04:33 PM dear wvgal, welcome to the forums.. ole cattle Post Reply
View Profile History	Winks Posted : 23 Feb, 2010 05:45 PM I used to send winks but I never got responses so I quit. I think if a person is really interested in you they should say so. Emails are better. Once you've been here a while you'll know what you prefer and what you will do with winks. Thunder Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	Winks Posted : 23 Feb, 2010 07:33 PM Winks are a tough topic. I typically don't send winks because I don't typically like to receive winks. When I do receive winks, I do one of two things after viewing the profile of the sender: 1) If I like the profile, I send a polite "Thanks for the wink" message and I might ask a questions, or 2) If I don't like the profile, I send a "We wouldn't make a good match" message. I have sent very few winks, most of which were complete ignored. The last one I sent was the best thing I ever did, though! In his profile, the guy specified that if a girl felt uncomfortable messaging him, but felt that he would be a good match for her, she should send a wink. So I did. And we are quite happily dating now! Post Reply
View Profile History	Winks Posted : 24 Feb, 2010 05:10 AM Hi WVGAL Personally I don't think winks show substance and I believe if a man is genuinely interestecd he will take the time to e-mail expressing his words of interest. Love7 Post Reply
View Profile History	Winks Posted : 24 Feb, 2010 09:13 AM With my new kool picture who needs winks. Rambo cat will get the ladies to laugh and I will get many views. Sincerly, rambo cat Post Reply
View Profile History	Winks Posted : 24 Feb, 2010 09:44 AM I agree. With Rambo on your profile, who needs anything more. :ROFL: Thank you. Post Reply
GraceMae View Profile History	Winks Posted : 24 Feb, 2010 08:08 PM Rambo cat! (dgr)... that is SO COOL!!!! :yay: ~ GM Post Reply
View Profile History	Winks Posted : 27 Feb, 2010 11:36 AM I'd rather not write long drawn out emails for this reason: no reply. So, I made up my own wink system: 1 Wink: Friendly wink 2 Winks: Hey Sunshine!!!! 3 Winks: Will you marry me??? 4 Winks: Will you be the mother of all my children??? 5 Winks: Will you grow old with me??? 6 Winks: 'Til death do us part??? 7 Winks: I am desperate for a date. Are you still available??? Hope that helps. :winksmile: Post Reply