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SacredVessel

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Posted : 21 Feb, 2010 03:32 PM

I was so excited about a Christian dating site that was free! While seeking a life partner, I thought to meet new friends and maybe meet that special one. However,the same male may review my profile two or three times yet never send a message. Why does this occur?

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Posted : 21 Feb, 2010 05:54 PM

dear sacred, welcome to the forums..

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Posted : 21 Feb, 2010 06:42 PM

Hi SacredVessel



The reason I tend to view a profile twice, or sometimes more, is because I forget what was in the profile. I've also noticed that people check my profile a few times and figure thats the reason for them as well.

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Posted : 21 Feb, 2010 06:57 PM

A lot of times I'll look at a profile more than once because I've forgotten that I already looked at it until I start reading it and it becomes familiar. :goofball:

I just hope nobody thinks I'm stalking them. :laugh:

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Posted : 22 Feb, 2010 08:54 AM

I'm gonna echo the other two, you can forget a profile, or maybe you see a pic come across the line, like the pics above me as I write this response, and you want to check it out. Also, as soon as you open someone's profile, you can see age and general location. That may be stopping some people in their tracks.

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Posted : 22 Feb, 2010 06:11 PM

Ole cattle, thanks for the welcome! All of your comments are helpful. I often think that I do not know what I am doing on this site and wonder if there is some magic formula. LOL

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Posted : 23 Feb, 2010 07:42 PM

dear sacred, ifn you find that magic formula do tell us all here hehe..

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Posted : 27 Feb, 2010 05:58 PM

I definitely understand what you're saying. I've "winked" at several profiles, yet received no responses. It's very difficult not to take it personally for me, because, granted, they don't know you but it seems it's all about looks for the most part. Or is there something wrong with my profile?! :-)



I feel weird for posting on this, but it is very frustrating, yet I agree.

It stinks that even some Christian men are as shallow as non-believers. I hope I don't sound too negative here, just venting my frustration!

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Posted : 27 Feb, 2010 09:44 PM

dear nicky, welcome to the forums..

oh and vent away hehe

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Posted : 4 Mar, 2010 03:06 PM

Okay, I have been away for a while but your words are so very true. I was so excited about the Christian site and believed Christian values would apply whether another was interested in dating each other or not. I have not winked at anyone but have wondered if something is wrong with my profile too. What we do know is we are vessels of sacred worth and anyone would be very blessed to develop a relationship of friendship or marriage.

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Posted : 4 Mar, 2010 06:15 PM

Hi guys!

I feel the same way. I am really getting discouraged with this whole internet dating thing. I feel as a Christian woman I dont have any good choice for dating. In my church I am either related to the singles or they are 20 yrs older than I am. I wish the men here were more agressive in communitation. Sandy

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