I am 100% confident that confidence is the fastest way to attract the woman you want (see what i did there?). What are some things you do to appear and/or be more confident?
I'll toss some more traits that I feel women like. Heck...I would like them in a woman also...for that matter -- in anyone!
Selflessness -- Putting others before themselves. Constantly thinking of those around them. "Shirt off their back" type of person.
Humble -- Even if they are as pretty and as smart as ...say...Walter -- they don't "act" like it. They don't "flaunt it".
Genuine -- They are who they say they are (Boy...say that real fast seven times!). There is no subterfuge about them. Everything about them is "out in the open". They say what they feel and they Feel what they say. No reading between the lines with them.
HUMOR!! -- Very important! They must be able to Laugh. At Life...at themselves...with others and just for the heck of it (alone in a closet even!)(I do that every now and then). Must have a sense of humor!
Affectionate -- Hugs...Kisses...Caresses...Slaps in the back of the head! And KISSES! More Kisses One more Kiss! OK...Last Kiss!
Brave -- When I say Brave...what I am talking about is not so much Courage, because Courage to me is Love's Big Brother -- they are never far from each other, but rather Faith. To be able to step out knowing that you might be hurt but Believing that "all will be well". To be Not Afraid. To Trust in God and in your Mate. To never be afraid to speak to God or your Mate. About anything.
Passionate -- Must be able to "Leave it all on the playing field". Give it 100%! If it is important to you...then act like it. Whether it is anger or Love or S*X...Passion!!
Reverent -- God must be number 1 all the time!! Everywhere!
Of course there are more but this is a good start.
So REMP...what if you were just 90% confident...would you still be considered a Confident Man?
I'm 100% confident you're right, that's why when I engage a stranger in conversation, I start it, end it, and treat them like I've known them for years. good post
arch: lol. i'm certain that 90% confident is pretty confident. but not as confident as 100% confident.
80% of our communication is non-verbal. and good posture, will not only make you appear more confident. it's actually been proven that people will feel more confident because of this too. i think confidence is no fear or self awareness. some tricks i have are, i know this might sound crazy, but imagine you have a second set of arms and they're on your hips. i swear people react, respond, respect, and acknowledge you different. also think of things we wear that women find sexy like a suit, uniform, tank top, etc. and imagine wearing that. your demeanor and body language will also change as a result of this physiological tweak.
and when you speak, don't pussyfoot around. put your foot down and say what you mean to say. cough drops also help my throat and chest to loosen up and sound more confident as well
Yes, you have to be confident because the head of a couple should be sure of what he thinks, he does, he gives, he asks for� Only that way she will live completely safe and loved, and she will learn how to love with you� Oh!!!, this needs some music...
Music or silence� We, women, we need our head, a strong and confident head.
A body which its head is sick� eventually dies. The same way the beautiful couple man/woman dies if man shows not confidence� better, if he IS not confident.
Men of God� please, clean right now your thoughts from all which is weak. Fill it with the mind of Christ and BE like He is, think like He thinks, breathe strongly and face the intimate world you will build with your wife in the most Pure and Confident way� because He, your Creator, even if you stumble for a while, will be holding your back� and she will see that, she will know it!!!
Love does not doubt� wait in the Lord, open your ears to the voice of God� You mistake? Does not matter� stand again in confidence� feel it inside your cells, make it part of you� Ask God for it and take it!!! � You will be the happiness of one woman on the Earth, yours�
