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Admin	What is meant by I just want to be friends Posted : 4 Feb, 2010 08:45 PM Guys will take over a ladie's emmotions, which we tend to give easily and our time. As soon as they start to become emotionally invoved they back off and only want to be friends Post Reply
View Profile History	What is meant by I just want to be friends Posted : 4 Feb, 2010 09:46 PM Yeah, we don't do so well with our emotions. At the risk of sounding like a broken record, (other posts) get the book , "How to get the love you want". That truly will answer alot of your questions. Hang in there! Post Reply
View Profile History	What is meant by I just want to be friends Posted : 4 Feb, 2010 10:09 PM dear 88 and gern. welcome to the forums.. ole cattle Post Reply
View Profile History	What is meant by I just want to be friends Posted : 5 Feb, 2010 12:03 AM I'm trying to figure out how a man is capable of "taking over" a woman's emotions?? This seems to imply that you have no control or accountability for them. They are YOURS. Why would he want to take over YOURS when he has his OWN. Contrary to what the gentleman above me stated, men do quite WELL with emotions. It has been a long indoctrinated fallacy that we men somehow LACK emotions, or that we somehow can't handle a woman's. But men are also very acute in recognizing the difference between a woman who has 'healthy' emotions, and ones that border on 'over emotional', with the possibility of using such over emoting as a way to subjugate and or control the man out of guilt..... Perhaps the main reason most guys 'back off' to some women is when some women blame a man for something that is clearly within a woman's control. Post Reply
View Profile History	What is meant by I just want to be friends Posted : 5 Feb, 2010 08:14 AM "What is meant by I just want to be friends" Means they aren't interested and time for you to put your energy elsewhere. Post Reply
View Profile History	What is meant by I just want to be friends Posted : 5 Feb, 2010 09:02 AM dear piano guy, i'm not a guy but i know what you are talking about. it goes both ways. people tend to be unaware of basic 'rights' and as a result pass responsibility in the form of blame.... for the simplest of things! it boggles the mind actually Nyanda Post Reply
View Profile History	What is meant by I just want to be friends Posted : 5 Feb, 2010 09:02 AM dear piano guy, i'm not a guy but i know what you are talking about. it goes both ways. people tend to be unaware of basic 'rights' and as a result pass responsibility in the form of blame.... for the simplest of things! it boggles the mind actually Nyanda Post Reply
DontHitThatMark View Profile History	What is meant by I just want to be friends Posted : 5 Feb, 2010 09:33 AM Well...the only thing that has made me ever back off and just want to be friends is when I learn more about a person over time and discover an incompatibility that I didn't notice at first...but that's the whole point of dating/getting to know someone, right? I'm sure some guys are scared of their emotions, but there is plenty of that to go around without being gender specific...just like everything else. It all goes both ways to some degree. :peace::peace: Post Reply
Jesusiseverything View Profile History	What is meant by I just want to be friends Posted : 5 Feb, 2010 03:47 PM I read a great article in e-harmony that said you should not give out to much personal information to soon. I know you may really want to get married, but don't give out your personal info to soon and you might find your emotions not being taken over. Post Reply
View Profile History	What is meant by I just want to be friends Posted : 5 Feb, 2010 04:10 PM dear folks, i dont know bout womenfolks but thats the kiss of death to a mans heart right there hehe.. ole cattle Post Reply
GraceMae View Profile History	What is meant by I just want to be friends Posted : 5 Feb, 2010 09:49 PM Thanks for posting the question 88K. ~ GraceMae Post Reply