Author	Thread: STD
Randy54156 View Profile History	STD Posted : 1 Feb, 2010 01:06 AM Who would knowingly date a woman with STD ? Questions like this should'nt even appear on a Christian based website. As with ALOT of others questions about sex.:boxing: Post Reply
View Profile History	STD Posted : 1 Feb, 2010 08:13 AM ok, if such questions shouldn't appear on here, then why are you asking?:MrT: Post Reply
skinnywhiteboy View Profile History	STD Posted : 1 Feb, 2010 09:37 AM Hey nobody's perfect. If someone has something, it certainly will limit their chances of finding people. I'd be happier knowing about it, as her telling me that shows a level of honesty and bravery. In my county it's law to get a blood test before a marriage license is given. There have been many medical advances through the years as well. I laugh whenever I see one of those valtrex commercials. (One partner still has herpes, and the other partner still does not) I wouldn't discriminate against dating a woman with a child, as long as she'd turned her life around. So why would I discriminate against someone for an std? (And NO I did not just compare a child to an std.) Post Reply
View Profile History	STD Posted : 1 Feb, 2010 03:57 PM Several points, even the bible talks about unclean people. waiting during a woman's unclean time before entering the temple. As for this site it is a very wise place to do it in. in the work place factory we have to where gloves to touch people with cuts.No contact with body fluids. Post Reply
View Profile History	STD Posted : 1 Feb, 2010 03:59 PM dear SWB -- LOL!! (@ the last part) Nyanda Post Reply
skinnywhiteboy View Profile History	STD Posted : 1 Feb, 2010 04:37 PM Nyanda- Thank you sooooo much for that!!! I was afraid of how people might react to that :glow: Whew! I feel much better now! Post Reply
View Profile History	STD Posted : 1 Feb, 2010 06:29 PM Randy: I'm not sure I understand your objection. Why should Christians be excluded from speaking about sexually transmitted diseases? Because it has to do with sex? And as Christians we should not be having sex before marriage? Ok, I agree with that. But -- how then do you deal with / talk about / communicate about STDs once you ARE married -- if you don't talk about it before? The forums are the place to ask questions and get responses. And this site should be a safe place to do just that. Just my opinion. Oh and SWB -- lol! Post Reply
View Profile History	STD Posted : 1 Feb, 2010 07:37 PM dear folks, randy does have a slight point here.. as lots of sexual topics should not be discussed between single men and women..... this one though i think could maybe of been worded a little different.. lets say it was, would you marry someone with a std? that takes away the appearance of single folks fornicatin before marriage.. so theres no misunderstandin.. and that to me is a good question. and what i believe the person meant when they asked the question... with that said i wouldnt knowingly marry someone who had a std... my ole body has had enuff go wrong with it to not wanna willingly give it more pain or problems..or even kill yourself.... but thats just me.. ole cattle Post Reply
GraceMae View Profile History	STD Posted : 1 Feb, 2010 10:48 PM SWB....you wrote " I wouldn't discriminate against dating a woman with a child, as long as she'd turned her life around. So why would I discriminate against someone for an std? (And NO I did not just compare a child to an std.) " You got me rolling!! :ROFL: I know this is "not funny". It is a serious matter,but, I think it's totally something that does need to be discussed at the "proper time". I feel if two people come to a place where the relationship is going to go to a deeper level of commitment, then certain thinigs will have to be asked AND discussed in depth. If we're going to cover all the basis for our future health, spiritual, physical and mental, then we gotta talk about these things. Honesty is going to be required. If we lie to one another in this phase, Oh Lord... there is NO future. If God is the one who will bring us together, then we have to trust God to help us work through our feelings and what direction to take in the relationship if our potential partner has an STD, and that is something we must consider. We trust Him direction, and pray on it, not on our own mind. We will come across many people who have come out of some heavy duty dark places in life prior to Christ, who deserve a chance at love and marraige as "new" creations in Christ. It they and we believe the ability of God's power to "makeover" , then really, if the person has this issue, and the relationship is of God, then don't we believe that God won't work those particulars out also? ~ GraceMae Post Reply
Randy54156 View Profile History	STD Posted : 2 Feb, 2010 01:09 AM I merely asked the very same question (in part) that was asked in "Ask a Girl" One of the woman had asked if other woman would date a man knowingly that he had STD. "Personally" I don't feel that a Christian site should allow sexual nature questions or comments to be discussed here. Their are many questions being asked that have no place in this site. Their are other sites that allow those type of questions. But then again, Their are also other ways that I could have presented myself on this issue. I'm SORRY Cattleman; but some of this stuff just p@*& me o*@ Post Reply
Jesusiseverything View Profile History	STD Posted : 2 Feb, 2010 08:06 AM Focus on the Family just did a program on STD about a month ago, real tear jerker. Everyone dating should hear it. Post Reply

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